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Hahaha
Well then... just the hug would be fine then I guess :D Didn't see that coming :P |
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Yeah - hug would be fine. Flowers - usually almost always - a little too much.
But, it's great your willing gto change and figure out what has not gone right. But with that gal - disappear for a while. |
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I'll take the flowers! :D My opinion, mine only, is... If you haven't seen or talked with her for a week or two, there is nothing wrong with maybe giving her a single rose if you go out on a date again. Shows a little romance, women (speaking for myself) like a romance. Makes them get that whole wamth all over feeling? :rolleyes:
Awwww romance.. guess maybe mine is in the ****ter right now that's why a rose sounds good here!! :D... What you think Wildcat?? A single rose or too needy? |
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 Originally Posted by Wildcat21
Ya, I have had guys buy me a drink before---they are looking at you from across the bar with these googly eyes like "hey baby....you and me later" :cool: I usually take the drink... unless the bartender says someone wants to buy a drink for me and then I will say no thanks. |
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I am not saying don't send flowers - just don't over do it. Few and far between.
And I know for a fact showing up with a single rose - some girls go eeeeeeeeeeeeeeew. Yuck! I guess you also got to know the girl - which ALWAYS gets back to taking things slow - getting to know them. I rest my case on buying a girl a drink - bad idea. Do something different. |
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Originally Posted by Wildcat21
Gotcha! I know what you mean. If I were to get flowers all the time, I would just think "oh more flowers." The excitement would not be there. And it depends on the situation with the single rose and the guy. Some goober giving me a single rose would be Yuck! But if it were a heart felt gesture- would be taken differently. |
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Originally Posted by Wonder1984
A hug and flowers would only drive Wildcat away. "Don't be needy and clingy. Be mysterious. let thme come to you. To much to soon. LESS IS MORE!!!" HAHAHA... Sorry Cat, I couldn't resist. But at least you know I've been paying attention!! |
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That's right - don't forget it!!
People want what they can't have!! |
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By wildcat
People want what they can't have!!
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Key... just talked to her and looked at some pictures...
I WANT HER!! I mean I really really really DO! God just to hold her now would be... like hugging santa as a 5-yearold. What should I do? She's a very little bit attrcted to me but still not enogh to make a commitment... And I know that if I just played it the right way... she would want me... What to do? PS. You guys/girls are the best! |
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Originally Posted by Wonder1984
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Then wake up have a cup of coffee and... damn it was only a dream.
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Dude relax, you've already figured out 99% of what most men don't understand about women... now all you have to do is figure out that 1%... my advice is join a sports team, make some guy friends...
I don't want you to be the guy in the PG-13 movie where everyone is really hoping for him. I want you to be the guy in the rated R movie where no one is to sure about him. And for god's sake no more sant hugging talk... :cool: |
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