[Alty]

Sarah, just so you know you're not alone.

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/mental...me-195877.html

[Stringer]

We're all here for you Sarah , just vent when you want. And your georgous really , right guys :cool:

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NOT FAIR AT ALL!! I just came and Mud you deleted your pic... not fair.. :mad:

EDIT: OKkkkkkkkk... now I seee what all the guys are 'fussin' 'bout... I agree, you are a cutie Mud.

[mudweiser]

NOT FAIR AT ALL!!!!!!! I just came and Mud youdeleted your pic....not fair....! :mad:

EDIT: OKkkkkkkkk...now I seee what all the guys are 'fussin' 'bout....I agree, you are a cutie Mud.

No I put it back there Stringer.

EDIT: Thanks.

Sarah

[mudweiser]

Sarah, just so you know you're not alone.

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/mental...me-195877.html

Thanks Alty for sharing. Really I appreciate it. Makes me feel not so alone. I don't really want to make this a thread though I'd like to keep it here where it's "safer".

Sarah

[Alty]

Sarah, you're beautiful, wow! :)

[starbuck8]

I'm so sorry you had to go through all of that. That must have been so scary, especially when you were young, and you felt like there was no one there to help you. That is just awful that you had so little to eat like that, and your mother left you alone and took you to strange houses with strangers that were just as sick as she was herself.

You no doubt married your husband because of all of this, and he was no good for you. He treated you just like all the others in your life did, and you let him because it's what you felt comfortable with, and you didn't think you deserved any better than that. That is how abusive people seek you out! They can almost literally smell the people that have been abused, and they prey on them. They ALWAYS start nice! Then they start to use your pain to get you to feel like you deserve what happened to you, and then the way that they treat you. It's almost like a game to them to see how far they can break you down, and you go willingly! What your husband did and said to you was FLAT OUT ABUSE! That was one sick game he was playing with you! He is an abusive man, physically, verbally, mentally, and emotionally! He didn't deserve for you to love him, and you didn't deserve to be abused by any of these people! NOT your mother, NOT the guy in the shadow, NOT "Tom", and NOT your husband! He should've been the one to protect you, and instead he was another INTRUDER!

You need to get help from a councelor Sarah! You really do. Things that get pushed back always come forward again. They don't go away unless you get some counseling for it! I know you would never do anything to hurt your daughter, but there are likely things that you will do, even if you don't mean to, because of the things you went through. Please talk with a counselor. You will be doing both yourself and your daughter a really big favour if you do.

Edit:: I just saw your pic! Wow girl... you got it going on! ;) Beautiful!

[friend4u178]

Sarah, you're beautiful, wow! :)

Told you so :p

[ISneezeFunny]

mudweiser...

I was referred to this page by altenweg. She says, "She seems to be your type."

I hurriedly came to this page to see your picture.

... yummy. Wait. Is that inappropriate?

If so, then, you are REALLY cute... and how old are you?

... single, perhaps?

[Stringer]

Almost everyone on the desk is a caring person, we have all let ourselves divulge a secret feeling or ten...

Those experiences have helped us help others and in turn help ourselves Mud... I think when it all shakes out we are all the better for it too.

Stringer

[Alty]

Jeesh, I said she was your type, not that you could have her Sneezy! Back off!

Boys! :(

[Alty]

Okay, Sarah, I'm on the phone with Sneezy and all he can talk about is how cute you are. He's drooling over your picture right now.

Just fyi, he's my boy toy, so stop it! ;)

Sneezy, get back in my room and stop saying WOW! I know! She's pretty! Down boy! Jeesh.

I should have kept my mouth shut. :(

[Stringer]

Jeesh, I said she was your type, not that you could have her Sneezy! Back off!

Boys! :(

It's only natural Alty dear... we are amazed at her beauty... right guys... am I right here? :)

[mudweiser]

If so, then, you are REALLY cute...and how old are you?

...single, perhaps?

I'm 22 I have a daughter and I'm just getting out of a marriage - sorry sneeze but Alty already called dibs on you.

Sarah

[Alty]

Okay, shameless plug.

Sneezy is 23, Asian, cute, single, pre-med, has a dog, lives in Atlanta, possibly New York if accepted into med school.

He's sweet, smart, sometimes annoying, wants me to say innocent, which is a crock, and rjust really a nice guy.

There, now give my $20 Sneezy! :)

Edit; He's also good with children, because he still is one. That'll cost you another $10 Sneezy!

[mudweiser]

Starbuck8 thanks for those great supportive words. I know I need to see a councilor, I am very aware of that. Honestly right now. It's is really hard being on my own. I have all the bills to pay for, I work from 9-5 in accounting and right now I'm actually looking for another job. Breaking up IS hard to do.

Sarah

[Stringer]

Okay, shameless plug.

Sneezy is 23, Asian, cute, single, pre-med, has a dog, lives in Atlanta, possibly New York if accepted into med school.

He's sweet, smart, sometimes annoying, wants me to say innocent, which is a crock, and rjust really a nice guy.

There, now give my $20 Sneezy! :)

Edit; He's also good with children, because he still is one. That'll cost you another $10 Sneezy!

Geeeeze... what a resume'

[Alty]

Starbuck8 thanks for those great supportive words. I know I need to see a councilor, I am very aware of that. Honestly right now. It's is really hard being on my own. I have all the bills to pay for, I work from 9-5 in accounting and right now I'm actually looking for another job. Breaking up IS hard to do.

Sarah

Hard, but sometimes necessary. :)

[Alty]

Geeeeze.....what a resume'

I know, I'm good aren't I? Want me to write yours? ;)

[Stringer]

Seriousl Mud, have you thought of modeling?

Stringer

[Stringer]

I know, I'm good aren't I? Want me to write yours? ;)

Yes, I would be interested... go for it...