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Artur1989 · Apr 4, 2009, 07:46 PM

So me and my girlfriend broke up about 2 years a go and I told her if your not with me then forget about me and she said OK and first 3 weeks didn't call me and then she send me a lot of text and when I told her I told you forget about me she was like I was going to send it to my friend and stuff always lied and then she got lost so I was going to go to my country about a year a go so she came and kick it with me and stuff and then I went to my country and I just came back and she was calling me txting me even if I don't call her telling me that she just wants to be my best friend and the last cuple of weeks she was taking me to movies she was putting her head to my shoulder and giving me popcorn even though I told her that I don't want any but she was putting it in my mouth and like 2 days a go she called I was drunk I told her how I feel about her and she's hurting me I can't be friends with her if she wants she can be my girlfriend but if she don't want to hurt me she needs to stop calling me and she was like OK I won't call you anymore and the next day she sent me a text message and she was like you know when me and you broke up it was the biggest mistake of my life if there is anything you want I would give you money even my body but I don't love you sorry and I won't call you anymore and I sent her text back saying just leave me alone so do you think she will come back or what ?:confused:

HelpinHere · Apr 4, 2009, 08:33 PM

It sounds to me like she is unsure of herself. It seems like she regrets leaving you, and wants you back, but at the same time fears getting you back.
I don't know what you should do, but try to clearly explain to her how you feel, and that one way or another, things cannot continue how they are now. She should leave you alone, and hopefully let both of you get on with your lives.

Artur1989 · Apr 4, 2009, 09:09 PM

Originally Posted by HelpinHere

It sounds to me like she is unsure of herself. It seems like she regrets leaving you, and wants you back, but at the same time fears getting you back.
I don't know what you should do, but try to clearly explain to her how you feel, and that one way or another, things cannot continue how they are now. She should leave you alone, and hopefully let both of you get on with your lives.

Yeah but the thing is I want her back because I think she is my one and only I had a lot of gfs but I don't feel the same way like I feel about her

I wish · Apr 4, 2009, 09:17 PM

Originally Posted by Artur1989

yeah but the thing is i want her back because i think she is my one and only i had alot of gfs but i dont feel the same way like i feel about her

If you want her back, why do you keep refusing and rejecting her advances?

I want one thing and you do another.

HelpinHere · Apr 4, 2009, 09:26 PM

Okay then, I believe I misunderstood your intensions then.

In that case, try to explain to her that you still like her, and you want to be with her, but things cannot be the same as they were before (mainly because it ended in a breakup) and if she is willing to try to work it out, then go for it!