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wendylynne · Apr 2, 2009, 04:45 AM

I am in the process of getting out of a horrbile relationship with a man of 3 years. I been going out a lot with my best friend. I have noticed this girl that I become so attracted to. Its crazy because I never been interested in chicks!! Just men!! Is this normal.? I don't know I am 34 ears old and very confused.

artlady · Apr 2, 2009, 04:56 AM

I think you could be a latent bi sexual.
I found an article that I think you will find informative.Here is the link:
WHAT IS BISEXUALITY? By Kathy Labriola

wendylynne · Apr 2, 2009, 06:21 AM

Thanks I didn't know because maybe I am getting out of a miserable relationship with a man or what... but I will definitely look at that article. Thanks a lot!!

liz28 · Apr 2, 2009, 01:50 PM

I can understand that you is going through a rough time right now because you recently had a break-up with your boyfriend and your friend is helping you so most likely you two are around each other more and might be a little more affection.

Sometimes our feelings can be mis-interpreted and you start to see someone in a different light. Sometimes a attraction starts to form, regardless if is towards the same sex.

This doesn't make you bi because right now your just attracted to her and didn't act on those feelings. Being bi is when you had or start any form of relationship with the same sex.

Right now you might be having a fantasy about being with her but everyone has fantasies about all kinds of things.

wendylynne · Apr 2, 2009, 02:14 PM

Originally Posted by liz28

i can understand that you is going through a rough time right now because you recently had a break-up with your boyfriend and your friend is helping you so most likely you two are around each other more and might be a little more affection.

Sometimes our feelings can be mis-interpreted and you start to see someone in a different light. Sometimes a attraction starts to form, regardless if is towards the same sex.

This doesn't make you bi because right now your just attracted to her and didn't act on those feelings. Being bi is when you had or start any form of relationship with the same sex.

Right now you might be having a fantasy about being with her but everyone has fantasies about all kinds of things.

Ohhh no its not my best friend... me and her go out its someone at the bar we go to... lol...

cadillac59 · Apr 2, 2009, 05:48 PM

With women and female sexuality, nothing would surprise me! Women are definitely a different breed!

liz28 · Apr 2, 2009, 05:54 PM

Originally Posted by cadillac59

With women and female sexuality, nothing would surprise me! Women are definitely a different breed!

Just curious by the meaning of these statements. Please enlighten me!

liz28 · Apr 2, 2009, 06:11 PM

Originally Posted by artlady

I think you could be a latent bi sexual.
I found an article that I think you will find informative.Here is the link:
WHAT IS BISEXUALITY? By Kathy Labriola

I like the link but was unable to give you a greenie because I had to spread the rep, so here you go.

I guess I was label an "Exploratory bisexual". I didn't know there was so many meaning towards being bi.

cadillac59 · Apr 2, 2009, 06:23 PM

Originally Posted by liz28

Just curious by the meaning of these statements. Please enlighten me!

Just that men and women are different. That's all. It's not a value judgment.

liz28 · Apr 2, 2009, 06:35 PM

Oh, okay just was curious because I've heard guys say that before and just was curious to know.

I haven't seen any new threads from you, unless I missed it, but hope all is well.

mudweiser · Apr 2, 2009, 06:39 PM

I've heard of females coming out from long or hard relationships and then seek females because they want that emotional support women can give. Maybe this is true for you?

Just a thought..

MRS.S