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    furiousracer313 Posts: 3, Reputation: 1
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    Feb 6, 2009, 09:07 PM
    I like her, but she has a boyfriend, how do I handle this?
    I am currently working at the New Main Event that is openeing soon in Frisco.. I met this girl, who is 19 and is a junior in college, I have been flirting and teasin her, and she does the same back. I like her, but she has a boyfriend. I don't know exactly how long they have been dating, I am guessin around 1-2 years.
    Do you think there is a chance in the future that they will break-up? Or maybe since we will be working together she will grow into liking me more than him? I don't know, what do you do? What are yalls thoughts?
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    Feb 6, 2009, 09:15 PM

    You have to ask yourself this . Would you like if your girlfriend was flirting with another man and he thought he had a chance. It can be karma.
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    Feb 6, 2009, 10:37 PM

    Sorry dude, but she's taken and do you really want to sit around and wait for her just in case cause maybe she'll be available at a later date..?

    That sounds like a glorious wast of time to me.

    You should move on!
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    Feb 7, 2009, 12:20 AM

    That's a tough one... If that was me, I would send bigger hints like ask her out and let her decide. Going out on a date is a big step from just chatting at work so maybe she'll decide for you. I know you have to take the risk of getting crushed but than you don't have to sit and wait if they break up down the road. Be up front and romance her. Maybe, her current relationship isn't that serious.
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    Feb 7, 2009, 01:42 AM

    Crista: I don't mean to be rude... but she has dated a guy for like 1-2 years... (after his estimation) So lets be realistic about this... would you want someone to romance your boyfriend? I don't think so!

    And sure he could ask her out... but I doubt that it'll get him anywhere... and if it does... I'd be a little worried about that as well... to be quite frank!
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    Feb 7, 2009, 02:12 AM

    Liking is different from loving.. it is frustration perhaps and soon will vanish... in my own point of view, its better not pursue... are you willing to deal with that kind girl? She's flirting even though she's already committed with someone... no offense...
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    Feb 7, 2009, 08:05 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by cutehanzel View Post
    liking is different from loving..it is frustration perhaps and soon will vanish...in my own point of view, its better not pursue...are you willing to deal with that kind girl? she's flirting even though she's already committed with someone...no offense ...
    Well I mean she's only 19, and I've seen people that were together for at least a year or so break up.. I mean, it could happen.. and she hasn't committed, because they arnt married or engaged, but I don't know...
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    Feb 7, 2009, 08:13 AM

    She is taken,flirting and fun are innocent ,you are reading too much into it.No one has a crystal ball ;);)but I see a future for you filled with lots of available young women.
    She is not one.
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    Feb 7, 2009, 08:28 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by artlady View Post
    She is taken,flirting and fun are innocent ,you are reading too much into it.No one has a crystal ball ;);)but I see a future for you filled with lots of available young women.
    She is not one.
    Actually I just I figured out that they have not even been dating for a year.. it will be a year in may of 09.. so anyone have a change in their opinions now?
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    Feb 7, 2009, 08:50 AM

    No. Stop it. She flirted with you. No big deal.

    And she has committed that's what going out with someone is.

    Find your own girlfriend.
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    Feb 7, 2009, 10:25 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by furiousracer313 View Post
    well i mean shes only 19, and i've seen people that were together for atleast a year or so break up.. i mean, it could happen.. and she hasnt commited, because they arnt married or engaged, but idk...
    Ike neverme said:stop it!! You really are reading too much into it. She is taken, deal with it!

    Besides the flirting might be innocent fun!

    And she isn't committed? What the.. dude, she is seeing someone, she might even be his GF, and that is a form of commitment!
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