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SAB123 · Feb 6, 2009, 01:35 PM

Yes, You are the better person and it will make you a stronger person in the end.

XM8 · Feb 6, 2009, 01:36 PM

Good to hear you're in the "exit zone".

why would I even want to try to be friends with someone who doesn't care about me or my friendship.

I'm glad you said that yourself, and now you finally get it. Keep that sentence in mind, especially when you are feeling down. You may think "my mind knows it's over, but my heart doesn't want to accept it" but trust me bro, if you stay strong you're heart will accept the facts and you will be fine.

It's like you're a blu-ray player and you're ex-girl friend turned into a diskette - there's just no way she is going to be compatible with you, so just let her go and move on.

-Xm8

P.S.

life goes on and I know I'm the better person in this.

You're damn right.

DJ28 · Feb 6, 2009, 01:42 PM

Well I'm glad I came on just now because I was feeling a little down, but really I feel a lot better now, after talking on here. I just need to think of some things to do to keep my mind off her. I've tried reading but can't focus enough, I hate winter to bad this didn't happen during summer.

XM8 · Feb 6, 2009, 01:45 PM

Well if coming on here makes you feel better, talk on my friend.

I don't know that much about you so I'm not so sure what to recommend. I remember when I was down because of my ex I used to play computer games, but hey I'm a kid lol

As for winter I agree.. winter does get me a bit depressed, spring and summer are awesome. Unfrortunately my ex girlfriend broke it off in April. Which was pretty good weather.. the screwed up thing is that she did it 1 day after my grandpa died...

-Xm8

DJ28 · Feb 6, 2009, 02:00 PM

Ouch that sucks man that must have been a mind f***, sorry to hear that. Well me personally. I like chasing storms, and working on my car. So yeah kind of sucks right now

SAB123 · Feb 6, 2009, 02:07 PM

DJ28, But just think of this when it does warm up you should be hopefully feeling your old self again.

DJ28 · Feb 6, 2009, 02:09 PM

Originally Posted by SAB123

DJ28, But just think of this when it does warm up you should be hopefully feeling your old self again.

That is very true.

XM8 · Feb 6, 2009, 02:33 PM

Yea it sucked but whatever.. she was a b*tch, I should have ditched her sooner. Instead I kept on chasing after her until I got drunk, broke a window and she gave the cops my name and address.. that's a real stab in the back if you ask me.

But whatever, it didn't kill me, it made me stronger so I hope you'll feel the same way in a few months.

Sab is right, when it starts getting warmer again it will be great. Btw do you live in the states by chance?

-Xm8

DJ28 · Feb 6, 2009, 02:37 PM

Yeah about 35 miles west of chicago.

SAB123 · Feb 6, 2009, 02:40 PM

Originally Posted by DJ28

yeah about 35 miles west of chicago.

DJ28, I'm about 25 miles south of Chicago.

DJ28 · Feb 6, 2009, 02:42 PM

Originally Posted by SAB123

DJ28, I'm about 25 miles south of Chicago.

Haha that's awesome man small world seems to be a lot of Illinois here, maybe it's the water or something.

SAB123 · Feb 6, 2009, 02:45 PM

You might be onto something with the water... LOL

XM8 · Feb 6, 2009, 02:49 PM

Hehe Americans.. cool. I'm an englis teen stuck in the middle of europe in austria... don't ask why, long story.

But whatever...

SAB123 · Feb 6, 2009, 02:52 PM

Originally Posted by xm8

hehe americans.. Cool.

lol

DJ28 · Feb 6, 2009, 06:51 PM

Man this sucks I'm feeling down right now, I'm trying to get my mind off her but I can't seem to focus on anything right now. It is just bringing me down in the dumps. And its making me want to call her. I just got back from working out not to long ago that helped a little but I don't know what to do right now. And I've tried calling the friends I do have but no answer so this sucks. Anyone have any advice for me?

talaniman · Feb 6, 2009, 10:19 PM

Take a hot shower two aspirin, and put that album on in your avatar. You do know its Friday night don't you??

DJ28 · Feb 6, 2009, 10:21 PM

Yeah but the one friend that I do have is in Florida with his GF. I kind of lost contact with all my other friends when I was with her. So yeah it kind of sucks.

XM8 · Feb 7, 2009, 02:35 AM

Hey man, I hope you haven't called her. Listen, screw that b*tch, go wank or something, you don't need her. Put on some good music, and just surf the net, relax!

That b*tch isn't worth the mental energy used to think of her, she's not worth it, so forget her man.

talaniman · Feb 7, 2009, 05:58 AM

There are so many people in Illinios, you could lose yourself for a week. It will be interesting to see how you regroup, and rebuild a life that you enjoy.

DJ28 · Feb 7, 2009, 07:40 AM

Well I haven't called her back, actually I started to feel better later that night just reassured myself how much of a jerk she is, and how bad of a friend. I feel good right now so I'm good. Getting ready to go work. I'm going to sign me up in some classes at the college here and maybe meet some people also so yeah.