Can't get over ex.

Chick from Iowa · Jan 13, 2009, 10:26 PM

Originally Posted by scaredypants

I had the mentality that my ex thoght i was lame and that i was not good enough for her. The main thing dancing through my mind was her and how i would only embarass myself before her. but by fate we met and TALKED , together we realized that friendship was an option.

it's hard to talk but thats what most of life is, difficult. Over the hill of this social awkwardness between the two of you awaits all the answers you really want. i can't tell you if he wants you back, if he only wants to be friends let alone anything about him really. you would need to ask him.

also dont forget him because, i dont think you would want him to forget you.

I still feel at times that he already DID forget me. Almost as if he didn't mean to, but it's too late now. Or as if he doesn't even want anything to do with me.

Chick from Iowa · Jan 13, 2009, 10:32 PM

Originally Posted by NorthernNiceGuy

Well let me say this, and this is was I really think. You're so young darlin, there are going to be so many other guys so don't think even for a second that this guy is the be all and end all. Being in high school with an ex sucks, seeing them in the halls, in class, its almost impossible to get away. So I feel for you because I remember those days.

I really think you should just leave this one alone. Young hearts are resilient and you will move on in no time. Besides, high school is way more fun single, trust me. So just have fun and enjoy your life!

Well even though I still feel like an old person at times.. Thanks for helping.

scaredypants · Jan 13, 2009, 10:36 PM

Originally Posted by Chick from Iowa

I still feel at times that he already DID forget me. Almost as if he didn't mean to, but it's too late now. Or as if he doesn't even want anything to do with me.

To reassure you I'm not too far off in age from you. You'll do lots of growing up in the coming years, for me grade 10 was the biggest leap of my life.

You seem like a nice girl and if he can't see that it is his loss.

I still stand by my case. I gave you my opinion and my evidence.

Chick from Iowa · Jan 13, 2009, 10:40 PM

Originally Posted by scaredypants

to reassure you I'm not too far off in age from you. you'll do lots of growing up in the coming years, for me grade 10 was the biggest leap of my life.

you seem like a nice girl and if he can't see that it is his loss.

I still stand by my case. i gave you my opinion and my evidence.

Well thank you tons. And I think he needs to know that I am probably nicer than him, Hah! :)