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    Nov 3, 2008, 11:49 AM
    Confused about this guy
    I am really confused.. .
    So I met this guy and when we first met I kind of froze up inside, like I didn't know quite what to do. This has only happened with one other guy before ( 'C' ) and I fell completely in love with him. I mean I have dated tons of other guys before but something about him was different, and now he's all I can think about. I think I really like him and it's the first time I've actually really liked someone since 'C' and I broke up. The weirdest part is that I really want to have sex with him. Now, I am a virgin technically, Ive had sex with girls before just never with a guy. I am straight but I sometimes fool around with girls and sometimes things get a little out of hand. When I think about him I sometimes get really horny. I know he kind of likes me and he wants to have sex with me too, but he kind of comes off as a bit of a player, and if I'm going to have sex with him I kind of want to be in a relationship with him. Should I talk to him about a possible relationship or just have sex with him and see how things go from there? I know that something is going to happen sooner or later because we both get really turned on around each other. Also he might come over on Wednesday (on Wednesdays my mom goes to work so Ill have the house to myself for about six hours in the evening and into the night) and I'm not too sure what is going to happen. We'll probably end up watching scary movie and things will most likely escalate from there on. What should I do?
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    Nov 3, 2008, 12:02 PM

    Somebody please help?
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    Nov 3, 2008, 12:06 PM

    Seriously
    Seriously
    You'll have sex 4 da 1st time because you are horny
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    Nov 3, 2008, 12:07 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by 2L2 View Post
    seriously
    seriously
    you'll have sex 4 da 1st time because u r horny



    Umm there's kind of more to it, but it would make my post reallly long :P
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    Nov 3, 2008, 12:10 PM
    Sory honey but u will regret
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    Nov 3, 2008, 12:21 PM

    Fair warning. Guys will say anything if it gets them sex. Guys will wants sex from any female that gives it to them.

    If that's all you want, that's all you'll get. If you want more, hold off sex, until you get what you want, and be careful what you ask for, as any half smart guy can tell if a female is willing or not.

    By the way, your not straight if you like messing around with both sexes. But it nothing wrong with that either.

    Think about doing the do, as you sound young, as there are always consequences to pay for your actions, like disease, or pregnancy.
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    Nov 3, 2008, 12:22 PM

    Sex outside of a relationship? Seriously? Wait for someone who is actually worth losing your virginity too, not some player who is just some guy.
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