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    Oct 5, 2008, 12:10 PM
    Do you see me and my ex getting back together.
    Me and my ex were together four years. We have a little three year old and another one on the way. He drives by my house about 5 times a day. Won't stop but just goes by then comes around again later.. But he also has a new girlfriend. They've been datin for a month. But again he still drives by here all the time even with her in the car.. Like I would like for us to get back together but do you see it happening. Because within the four years we were together we'd break up then get back together a week or so later.. And when we first broke up this time he acted like he wanted to but was confused so what do you think. Should I start getting serious with someone else or just date around and see if he comes crawling back :(
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    Oct 5, 2008, 12:34 PM

    What do you want?

    My initial reaction is move on. You have a child already and another on the way, that sort instability won't make for a healthy home to grow up in. Think of the kids now before you think of this guy.
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    Oct 5, 2008, 12:39 PM

    I have to agree with Revival.

    If you do get back together how long will it be for? You yourself stated that you two have an on again off again relationship.

    Personally I think it's time to find something more stable and consecutive, for yourelf and your kids.
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    Oct 5, 2008, 12:47 PM

    I have to ask since I assume you're only 22 do you still live at home? Like are your parents there for you and the kids? And what kind of education do you have?
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    Oct 5, 2008, 07:12 PM

    Quote Originally Posted by ash1986ash
    Do you see me and my ex getting back together?
    Well, if you DO somehow manage to reconnect, I also see you breaking up again. Your lives are aware you don't go together, but your hearts keep this dragging on. You got to be smart and put this possibility out of your head.

    You can both be happier, or you can be together. I doubt you can do both.
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    Oct 9, 2008, 11:34 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by ash1986ash View Post
    Me and my ex were together four years. We have a little three year old and another one on the way. He drives by my house about 5 times a day. Won't stop but just goes by then comes around again later.. But he also has a new gf. They've been datin for a month. But again he still drives by here all the time even with her in the car.. Like I would like for us to get back together but do you see it happening. Because within the four years we were together we'd break up then get back together a wk or so later.. And when we first broke up this time he acted like he wanted to but was confused so what do you think. Should I start getting serious with someone else or just date around and see if he comes crawling back :(
    Do you think we will get back 2 gether later on and he will leave his girlfriend?
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    Oct 9, 2008, 11:39 AM

    Huh? Are you the same person with another screen name or someone new?
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    Oct 9, 2008, 11:41 AM
    My ex left me and my baby 4 another girl u think we will end up together again:)
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    Oct 9, 2008, 11:44 AM
    What is your story?
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    Oct 9, 2008, 11:53 AM

    Weird.

    To the OP - What has changed since the last break-up that has made you want him back? From the sounds of it you are not putting a lot of thought or effort into making smart decisions. Quite frankly it seems like he drives by your house with a girl and that makes you want him back.

    I'd stay away and definitely spend time thinking about your future and your children's future. Him driving by 7 times a day is not normal either.
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    Oct 10, 2008, 09:40 AM
    I want u to tell me if we will end up together again?
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    Oct 10, 2008, 09:43 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by karina gonzales View Post
    i want u to tell me if we will end up together again?

    Karina, what you are doing is piggybacking on someone else's thread, that is against the rules.

    If you have a question please start your own thread, we'd be more than happy to help you if we can.

    Thank you.
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    Oct 11, 2008, 09:11 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by ash1986ash View Post
    Do you see me and my ex gettin back together.
    :(
    NO, not till he grows up, and can be a man, and help with raising those two kids he has made. Make sure your kids get child support, and all the love you can give them. Let his new g/f have him, and you get on with your life, and don't waste anymore emotion on him. Good Riddance,
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    Oct 11, 2008, 09:28 AM

    Along with what everyone else is saying I would close your curtains/blinds/whatever kind of window treatments you have so you don't know when he's driving by. As crazy as that sounds. Sounds like it's driving you nuts that he does that all the time and unless you say "stop driving by my house," I don't see it stopping. And if you were to say that he would know that it's bothering you, which might be what he's going for.
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    Oct 20, 2008, 10:50 AM
    Hey I've been hearing that he has her pregnant can u tell me if its his? Her date of birth is 9-10-90 her name hannah lacy, his date of birth 8-1-91 his name kenny yonathan perez
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    Oct 20, 2008, 10:52 AM

    This isn't the psychic forum!!
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    Oct 20, 2008, 10:53 AM
    He might have another but can you tell me if its his? Her date of birth 9-10-90 her name hannah lacy his date of birth 8-1-91 his name kenny yonathan perez
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    Oct 20, 2008, 11:32 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by talaniman View Post
    This isn't the psychic forum!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    Lol. Maybe your default picture is confusing her.

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