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Ok, I think many of us ( myself included) need to revisit this check list. Guys, this works for you too. I cannot stress enough about #1. I think all of the people who are lost and asking... "Will my ex come back to me?" "Why does my ex want their space?" this will help you realize it is time to move on. Just read and speak on it.



Signs he's not interested #1
He doesn't call
If you do all the calling, or if the phone call ratio is 4:1, then there's a good chance your guy is just not interested. If you haven't been paying attention to the phone call scenario, perhaps it's time you did.

It's very possible that he's just not a phone guy; most guys aren't. But if you call him a handful of times a day and you get the cut off or the machine most of the time, then this is definitely one of the signs he's not interested in you.

Signs he's not interested #2
He insults you
It's hard to admit, but it's the people who hurt us most that we seem to spend our time chasing after; that's why it's so difficult to deal with rejection.

If every time you're with him, he barrages you with insulting commentary, regardless of whether he says “I'm joking” afterwards, this is a man who lacks respect for you and is not interested in seeing you in the future.

Signs he's not interested #3
He asks about your friends
After meeting a couple of your friends, he makes it his mission to let you know that he finds one, or some, of them hot. If that weren't bad enough, he's obvious about his intentions.

From asking if she's single to whether any of you have ever dated guys the other has been with, he seems determined to let you know that he thinks your friend is hot and, if given the opportunity, would sleep with her.

Hopefully, you're not so dumb that you begin to get angry at her or, worse, avoid her.

Signs he's not interested #4
You're not in his future plans
Although you keep trying to get him to admit that you're dating or cave in to a monogamous relationship with you, he's just not having it and would rather die than utter those words.

If that weren't hurtful enough, whenever he talks of the future, he never, ever says “we.” He always talks about going on vacation by himself or, if he does talk about marriage, it's more like “when I get married to whomever…” You are never part of his future equation.

Signs he's not interested #5
He lets you pay for everything
He might spend the night at your apartment and he might agree to go on romantic dates with you, but one thing's for sure, he is not investing a dime in your relationship.

While you're on the verge of going broke trying to keep up with your own debts and taking care of his needs, he reveling in the lifestyle that has him getting laid without having to contribute a cent, let alone his heart.

Signs he's not interested #6
He's very secretive
You've never been to his place, you have no idea who his friends are, and you barely know what he does for a living. You live in the dark when it comes to this man.

And while it might be somewhat exciting at first, it must be nerve-wracking that the man you want does not let you in on his personal life. The only time he reveals anything is when you're spread eagle and he's about ready to blow. It's high time you faced that he probably thinks you're a "butter face."

Signs he's not interested #7
You're the fall back plan
If you and he have plans but Mike calls him up at the last minute to go out clubbing, guess what? Buddy is going to cancel plans with you. You just aren't important enough to make sacrifices for.

Only when everyone else has plans, or he's horny as hell, will this guy show up at your door and be remotely pleasant. And once his orgasm has come and gone, you can bet he will be gone, too.

Signs he's not interested #8
He never asks about your life
While you consistently inquire about the goings on in his life, he has never even made an attempt to seem interested in what you do, who you see or why you even exist.

And whenever you volunteer the information, he forgets it in an instant and seems like he's bored with the conversation. He never commits anything you tell him to memory because he doesn't need to impress you.

Note the signs he's not interested

It's up to you to face the truth and show your guy the door. Keep in mind that most guys won't reject a free ride, whether it's monetary or sexual.

So unless you're fine with paying and laying the guy who has no interest in spending more time than he has to in order to get what he wants out of you, you should face reality and get a man on your terms.


Many of us have had to check off two or more signs... yet, why do some of us still pursue even after the writing is on the wall?