[melissa1]

Right I'm 30 weeks pregnant I went to the midwife today who did everything like normal, blood pressure etc but my belly is measuring 5weeks bigger, she asked if my due date could be wrong which I thought it was to start with!
I am having a scan Monday to check on actual growth of baby as she did mention it could be normal for me as I could be carrying a lot of water or something I am just wondering if anyone else has experienced the same thing?
If on Monday at my scan baby is measuring bigger than expected what will happen will my due date change or will I be offered another scan or something!!
I'm quite worried now that baby is big my 1st was 8lb 8.5 and really hoping that this baby isn't any bigger!

Thanks in advance for replys
Melissa

[thegandyman]

2nd babies are very often bigger than the 1st.
I was a couple of weeks early personally and I was a 10lb peanut.
My older brother was almost 8lb and was delivered on time.
Probably not what you wanted to hear, sorry.

[melissa1]

A lot of people have told me this I asked my midwife and she told me it's a myth each pregnancy is different!
I'm really hoping she isn't bigger than my 1st but as long as she is healthy that's all that matters

Thanks for you message

[ang8318]

I measured about 4 weeks bigger my entire pregnancy, so at 36 weeks I measure 40 etc. It turned out my due date was right, just a big baby, I ended up with a c-section at 37 weeks, because my pelvic measurement was too small for a big baby. However I also had other issues that lead to a c-section, women can and do have larger babies all the time! Good luck to you!

[melissa1]

Just a quick update I went for my scan today and baby's waist is measuring in at 34 weeks 1 day and I am only 30 weeks today her weight right now is 4lb 4oz which is quite scary considering I have 10 weeks left!
The sonographer said they would prob induce as she is that big already but when I went through to see the consultant she was horrible!!
I asked about induction she advised me that if I go to full term the baby is more than likely to be a good 10lb which is terrifying but am not allowed to be induced she said women have big babies every day!
Surely I have a right to my opinion I don't want a c section I want a natural birth but don't want to give birth to a baby that size!
Any advice??
Should I ask to see another consultant who will listen to me?

[stormey44]

Well to ease your mind I just had a baby at 32 weeks and she weighed 5 pounds 12 ounces huge I know well good luck

[DoulaLC]

just a quick update i went for my scan today and babys waist is measuring in at 34 wks 1 day and i am only 30 wks today her weight right now is 4lb 4oz which is quite scary considering i have 10 wks left!
the sonographer said they would prob induce as she is that big already but when i went through to see the consultant she was horrible!!!
i asked about induction she advised me that if i go to full term the baby is more than likely to be a good 10lb which is terrifying but am not allowed to be induced she said women have big babies every day!
surely i have a right to my opinion i dont want a c section i want a natural birth but dont want to give birth to a baby that size!
any advice???
should i ask to see another consultant who will listen to me??

The problem is that it is only an educated guess on the weight and the later you are in the pregnancy, the less accurate it becomes. Your dates may be off as you first thought as well. Being induced does not guarantee you will avoid a c-section, in fact, it increases the odds of having one. At 30 weeks, you don't have to make a decision now. See how things look in several more weeks. If they still think baby may be a good size, there are a number of things you can do in labour and birth to make things easier... stay out of bed for the most part, try to avoid an epidural if possible, use upright positioning, avoid giving birth in a reclined position.

[O_Troubles]

I'm no expert but can't you just wait a little longer and seeing as how your baby is almost ready to come out anyway induce it early and have the natural birth as apposed to waiting and... ouch!

[melissa1]

I'm not saying I want to be induced now I am saying at 37wks I wouldn't want to have her yet!

[DoulaLC]

im not saying i want to be induced now i am saying at 37wks i wouldnt want to have her yet!

You still run the risk of having a c-section if things don't go well with an induction. Certainly many inductions go smoothly, when the mother's body is ready for it, but many others do not. It is important to keep in mind that one intervention often makes others become necessary so they should be used only when medically warranted... this becomes even more important if your cervix is not favorable to being induced at 37 weeks. I've had more mothers end up with sections from being induced than have from a suspected big baby.
Odds are quite good that you could find another consultant who would induce you early because of "big baby" syndrome, since it is one of the most common reasons for the increase in inductions these days.