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    Apr 1, 2008, 07:31 AM
    Well, its Day 3 of NC. He texted me last night and just said "I love you"... but I didn't respond. Yay for me!
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    Apr 1, 2008, 07:48 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by losingit77
    Well, its Day 3 of NC. He texted me last night and just said "I love you"...but I didn't respond. Yay for me!
    Bravo for you! I'm proud!

    I was in your same shoes close to five months ago. (122 days of no contact) He loved me... but for whatever reason, he couldn't commit. He was so "torn." He blamed it mostly on his job. But mostly, it was just fear. Typical. I'm glad you didn't respond to his "I love you." It was hard, I'm sure. But keep it up! The pain will slowly go away. He needs this time to re-evaluate things, as do you.

    Just because time has a way of changing things doesn't mean that the past was a waste.

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