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    angelafitz00 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Mar 24, 2008, 06:08 PM
    Will I love a man
    Hello I'm in a relation ship now for two months. Which is long for me I can never keep one or actually feel anything for any man. I have never cryied over a man.. I think I might love him but will I ever love a man?
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    Mar 24, 2008, 06:30 PM
    Just give it time its been 2months enjoy having fun together,going out,staying in etc.
    Love will come when you least expect it don't wait for it,just get on with your relationship and see were it goes
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    Mar 24, 2008, 10:55 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by angelafitz00
    hello I'm in a relation ship now for two months. Which is long for me
    Well, even if it's long for you, it's not long at all. You've got a lot of time to put in to experience true meaningful love. Anything you feel in the first two months is just chemistry, uncontrollable yearnings, and those can be pretty hot! You have to work through all that get to some "normalcy" before you can start to trust what's going on between you and a guy and suspect it might have some permanence.
    I can never keep one or actually feel anything for any man. I have never cryied over a man.. I think I might love him but will I ever love a man?
    See, even you can't figure it out, so we definitely can't. Yes, you'll love a man, hopefully SEVERAL. But hopefully you'll spend the time figuring out which guy you love is also good husband material, because they won't ALL be.

    Loving a man is one thing, making a permanent lasting bond takes time, time TIME! Sit back, relax, pay attention, don't fret, but don't ignore who he is to you / around you after you've been dating 6-12 months. THAT'S the guy he'll be.
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    Mar 25, 2008, 05:57 AM
    After the initial attractions wear off, you can better see who a person really is. Two months is a time your just strangers, with strong intense feelings, but should be having the fun of getting to know them, with no drama, or complications in the way. Later you can better judge how you feel, and can decide whether its worth continuing or not. Go slow, and see who your feeling for, in a realistic way. Then you will know, if you can love, or not.

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