[lilsportygrl]

I just recently went to a concert with this guy jake but I found out he likes this other girl. I went w/ jake, mike, and stacey. Mike talked to jake about the whole thing including takins me and stacey and at 1st he said no way but in the end we went together and had a lot of fun. Jake doesn't like me though, I just want to hang out w/ him and see what happens but he is the type of guy that I guess can be an but I really like him and have for 3 years. He's a lot of fun and cute but I don't think he likes me even enough to hang out... idk what to do. I'm 16 & a junior, he's 18 a senior. How can I start talking to him again, && try to go from there?

[R0cKin_t33N]

Well try to let him notice you... He may be a guy but he still has feelings, and I bet if you showed him who you really are ,he'll feel a connection.
Also remember the world doesn't revolve around him, try not to make him feel special... cause if he does then he'll take advantage and move on.
And Last but not least know that he's not the only guy in this world... "There Are Many Fish In The Sea"
.GuD LuCk

[lilsportygrl]

I asked him to another concert he said yea.. so I don't know. But I spoke to his friend who wants to hang out && I asked him to bring jake && ill bring stacey or just the 3 of us, && he said jake isn't going to chill w/ us. The concert is 18+ so I can't get in but he said he'd help me sneak in, but I like him && its not really going anywhere. He might not have the money to go & even if he does that's it, because I can't get him to hang. I wish I wasn't shy & could ask him myself but I don't know.

[o NitSuA o]

OK I'm assuming this is high school so there are at least two things going on here that jake is probably thinking about. 1) is that he is going to college next year, and even if you did have a relationship for this year/summer it would never last while he is at college and you are still in h.s... 2) he is 18, and you are 16. If you guys have sex and you get pregnant he goes to jail(unless its 3 years age difference).

please remember this is what he could be thinking not what he is thinking. There's a chance it wasn't meant to be, and it happens to us all. The best thing you can do is keep on hangin out with him and maybe hell get those same feelings you have for him. If he doesn't though you need to let him go because it will just do more damage to you.

hope I helped =)