[alpha_zero]

K so at work I kind of took a fancy for this girl. She is very cute. Id help her extra at work sometimes to show hr I cared and stuff yadda yadda. So today at work She gave me a christmas card and I bought her a small box of chocolates. In the card it read.

My Name
You are honestly amazing. Don't believe me if I say otherwise. I am so glad that you are apart of my life. I hope you have an amazing christmas and new years eve, of course it's going to be amazing since you know me haha Love Love: her name.

Now I don't actually know if she put love twice or not cause the second one I can't read so it looks like it lol. I was just wondering what do you guy/girls think. Im going to go to visit her at work on mon and ask her out regardless I was just getting other opinions. Another girl at work thinks she likes me to. Plus I don't know if this is true but if a girl likes a guy sometimes shell hit him a bit, like not hard but in the shoulder as a gesture. When I make a joke or make her laugh she does that from time to time lol. Thanks everyone and have a Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!

[Clough]

It seems to be obvious that she does like you! I don't know why she would have written Love Love twice, though.

How old are you and how old is she? Just curious.

[alpha_zero]

I'm 19 and she is 17, thanks for the response

[Clough]

You're welcome for the response. Thanks for telling me your ages. Do you have any definite plans as to where you would like to go on a date with her?

[alpha_zero]

I was thinking about asking her to a movie, or even dinner so we can talk some more cause in a theater if you talk people tend to throw stuff at you lol.

[Clough]

It sounds like you have some good ideas and a plan! How about both a movie and dinner? I do like your idea about it being important to be able to speak with one another at this stage in your relationship.

Do you know some of the things that she is interested in outside of what she does at work?

[alpha_zero]

We both like to go to the gym, we both like most of the same movies (Fight Club FTW lmao), she likes to dance, she is really big on family like me I take the quote from The Godfather when Vito says *A man can never be a real man unless he spends time with his fmaily* lol I am a big family man. She likes chocolate as you can tell I bought her some lol, she likes to bake

[Clough]

It sounds like the two of your really have a lot in common! All the better for making a good foundation in starting as well as maintaining a relationship!

Since the two of you work together, do you have any concerns about that if your relationship were to start to get serious?

[aiyerrc]

Usually, unless the girl is very forward, she would feel weird saying love and writing the things about you she did if she liked you. I'm 19 also, and this is just my opinion, but I'm not sure if she likes you, or she would find it harder to have sent you a card saying the things it did. I would definitely still ask her out regardless though, she won't say no... but again, at our age, whenever a girl likes you, they will find everyway to indirectly drop hints except directly give a card saying how they feel. Again, just my opinion, and I hope you prove me dead wrong...

GOOD LUCK!

[alpha_zero]

Nah no concerns my friend who is one of the managers there now (he's 21 I believe) is seriously dating a cashier there and there have been no problems. I always think if you dread hat something bad might happen then it will, I like to keep positive.

[Clough]

Nah no concerns my friend who is one of the managers there now (he's 21 i believe) is seriously dating a cashier there and there have been no problems. i always think if you dread hat something bad might happen then it will, i like to keep positive.

I was just checking to see how you felt about the workplace relationship thing. Workplace relationships can work. It's just best to be careful though.

What do each of you do at work? By the way, I do think that you have an excellent attitude! :)

[alpha_zero]

I am a Courtesy Clerk and she is a cashier. I do mostly what people don't want to do lo take out garbage, bring in carts, shovel when it's snowing like today *damnit* help bag for cashiers (which I do for her... alot) lol

[Clough]

Except for the bagging part, while employed at a job, I have brought in carts and taken out the garbage. For me, I think that it's important, that no matter what you do as an employee, make yourself indispensable. It will get noticed by management and also be her! It sounds like you already have an attitude geared towards that way anyway!

[jrebel7]

Sure sounds like she does like you and flirts with you. It is always worth asking someone for a date if you feel drawn to them. If when you ask her, you handle it light heartedly and sort of off the cuff, then either way, it will be fine.

I wouldn't put too much stock in the "love love" part. Some people sign "bye bye" rather than "bye" so that might just be something she does is sign "Love Love." This is not to discourage you, just want you going in as lighthearted as possible to the experience of asking her out. It is especially important since you work in the same place so that it is not uncomfortable either way it goes. You sound like a positive person who puts forth positive energy and sensitive, picking up on certain things from her.

Always be proud of what you do on your job. Each job done well, generally leads to better postitions.

I do have one question. Did she give you the card and you already had the gift for her or vice versa or after the card you gave the chocolates. It is neither here nor there in terms of your question. I am just thinking if you already had the chocolates before she handed you the card, that had to have made a sweet impression on her.

[Clough]

I am just thinking if you already had the chocolates before she handed you the card, that had to have made a sweet impression on her.

LOL! No pun intended. Correct! :p

[jrebel7]

Oh my goodness! You are quick tonight! I missed that. Good one. Wish I would have though of it!! LOL

[Clough]

Oh my goodness! You are quick tonight! I missed that. Good one. Wish I would have thought of it!!!!!!! LOL

Me, quick? :confused: Now, I know that you're joking! :D

[alpha_zero]

WE did it at the same time really. I didn't know she got me a card until I got it... well I had a hint cause every time I would wlak by she would stop writing down somethnig and hide it. Before goni to work I thought I would buy her some chocolate there. So when I bought it I gave it to her and she gave me the card... while cashing out I took a step and realised I left the card for a split second then she was like *if you would have left that I would have never talked to you again* as a joke lol

[jrebel7]

Alpha, sounds like maybe this is going to take off for you and her. She sounds fun and so do you. Keep us posted. :)

[Clough]

I agree! It would be good to know how all this works out for you. Thank you!