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sweet_as_cherry · Mar 10, 2008, 09:52 PM

Well I had this boyfriend for 1 year and six months we broke up and ended as friends... but one thing led to another and know we don't even speak to each other. We were best friends and now we are nothing. I love him so much and I think he still does to but I'm not sure. Its been a month and 2 weeks that we don't speak to each other. The thing is that his 18.. and I know he wants to see wats out there and stuff... so please give me sum advise on how to at least be friends with him again. I don't want to be the one to look for him because is gun make him more proud. Is making him jealous with another guy a good tactic... could it work... how long do I wait till I giv up for ever... I really don't know how he feels cause he can hide his feelings really well... do guys still think of their exes after a break up especially when we were always there for each other?? I'm really hurt cause I think we will never talk to each other again... pleaseee hellppp meee!! :confused: :confused: :confused: :confused:

JBeaucaire · Mar 10, 2008, 10:12 PM

Unfortunately dear, it's over. As a guy he absolutely does not deal with relationships the way you do. You're sitting here mulling it over and over in your head... and he isn't. Don't get me wrong, you dated a long time so I'm sure he thinks of you now and then, but no way he's fretting it like you are.

Your message pretty clearly indicates you're looking for some way to get inside his head and figure out a way to steer him back. Right? So, since you liked each other before you want some way to trick/manipulate him to get what you want regardless of how he feels about you NOW.

That sounds just awesome. (sarcasm intended in case you missed it)

The time you're spending on the EX-relationship is wasted time. Having fond memories of this boy is fine, but they will not stay fine if you obsess over him. You have an excellent life just waiting to be discovered.

But that's in the future, it's AHEAD of you. Stop looking over your shoulder or you will miss it.

sweet_as_cherry · Mar 10, 2008, 10:16 PM

Thanks o know what your trying to say.. but at least do you think well ever get to talk again at least like friends

JBeaucaire · Mar 10, 2008, 10:55 PM

Originally Posted by sweet_as_cherry

thanks o know wat ur trying to say..but at least do u think well ever get to talk again at least like friends

I believe that question falls into the category of "looking back over your shoulder."