[airwalk_man]

All right the synopsis,
-Met a girl online a two weeks ago, we chatted and decided to meet.
-Gorgeous, smart, funny and we are compatible with even the smallest similarities.
-I set a date up, arranged and organized everything, with no glitches. Stand up comedy if you should know.
-I was confident, funny, and a little bit cocky throughout the date, and I was reciprocating positive feelings from her, more then I have in the past. We exchanged some kisses but nothing beyond that.
-She tells me she had an awesome time and "never laughed so hard in her life" the Sunday of that weekend. (I'll even prove it on my FaceB).

Therefore, I'm hooked. I haven't been knocked on the head with a quality woman that may like me (which it sounds) in a long time. I didn't want to be Mr. Clingy so I gave it a few days to communicate, and I was hoping that she would feel like giving me a shout during the week. People where saying "the ball is in her court" (whatever that means) But she didn't. I end up calling to make plans today, and she gives me the "I'm studying and I have to catch up, so call me on Saturday morning, and we'll see if we can do something". When really, I log onto the site that we met and she's online on the search or answering her messages, this is what's giving me the conflict here.

What the hell do you want? Do you want a guy to call right away and be all clingy or do you want the few day break so that you don't get that impression. One of my female roommates says she lives by the three day rule, and the other says its circumstantial. The rule is total bullsh*t if you ask me. So now I'm thinking I dug my own grave, or maybe she is genuinely busy and we "might" actually do something?
I'm an attractive mid 20ties male and have my head on my shoulders with my own company and mentally stable, and I have a tad bit of bad boy in me. I'm not trying to boost my ego, but honestly, I can't get this first three dates off the ground. I know this question has probably been beat to death on this site, but I need to know some facts on my own terms. Its really starting to frustrate me, and maybe I just had to type it out. Anyway, Thanks for the help.

[N0help4u]

If she is going to college she probably really is busy.
Also some girls don't feel comfortable calling the guy until they know he is really interested.
Call her Saturday and see what she says.
I agree, I don't go with the live by the rule but rather go with the flow and evaluate the individual circumstances.

Oh and DON'T be clingy~MOST girls HATE that.

[airwalk_man]

If she is going to college she probably really is busy.
Also some girls don't feel comfortable calling the guy until they know he is really interested.
Call her Saturday and see what she says.
I agree, I don't go with the live by the rule but rather go with the flow and evaluate the individual circumstances.

Oh and DON'T be clingy~MOST girls HATE that.

You might have something with the "some girls don't feel comfortable calling the guy until they know he is really interested" idea. What impressions do you get from a guy that's "totally interested" is my question, cause I think I've done my due diligence.

She's an accountant and she's finishing her papers. I'm still going to act all cool and calm about the situation. Obviously I know the clingy rule and I'm not that guy, I never have been, but this type of situation really gets to me. Thanks for the reply.

[N0help4u]

I don't really know. I have had the worst of luck with guys in my life.
I know I don't like clingy, whiny, etc...
But a guy that is all ego and the other extreme is just as bad.
Best to be your adorable self and treat her like an equal and a special friend.