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dani04 · Feb 24, 2008, 05:28 PM

How do you make your ex boyfriend jealous?

charlotte234s · Feb 24, 2008, 05:30 PM

Stop caring and forget about him? Haha

dani04 · Feb 24, 2008, 05:32 PM

Originally Posted by charlotte234s

Stop caring and forget about him? Haha

Hahaha but I don't think he would take me back then

ESTERA_x3 · Feb 24, 2008, 06:05 PM

Hey. You really shouldn't let that eat you up. Don't try to make him jealous. In the long run it won't help your relationship, if anything, it will just make him dislike you. I think males work different than females. Act like you care about him, but your moving on because you have to. It will make him think about it more, eventually he will try talking to you. And if he doesn't, than let it go. I KNOW ITS HARD. But whatever you do. Don't try to play the jealous game. Trust me. Because once that game starts it will never ever end, until the relationship ends. So if that's the guy you want to be with, don't play. Take care, and stay strong.

dani04 · Feb 24, 2008, 06:07 PM

Originally Posted by ESTERA_x3

hey. you really shouldn't let that eat you up. dont try to make him jealous. in the long run it wont help your relationship, if anything, it will just make him dislike you. I think males work different than females. Act like you care about him, but your moving on because you have to. it will make him think about it more, eventually he will try talking to you. and if he doesnt, than let it go. I KNOW ITS HARD. but whatever you do. dont try to play the jealous game. trust me. because once that game starts it wil never ever end, until the relationship ends. so if thats the guy you want to be with, dont play. take care, and stay strong.

Were not in a relationship though, I am tryinng to do stuff that may make him jelous so he will come back to me. But I don't know what to say or to do to get him back

ESTERA_x3 · Feb 24, 2008, 06:15 PM

If I knew the whole situation, and him and everything I would be able to come up with an answer quicker. But there is a reason for everything. What did he tell you was the reason for the break up?

dani04 · Feb 24, 2008, 06:21 PM

Originally Posted by ESTERA_x3

if i knew the whole situation, and him and everything i would be able to come up with an answer quicker. but there is a reason for everything. what did he tell you was the reason for the break up?

OK we have been together like for about a year and I really like him. He said he was in love with me. He said it would be me and him forever... and we made like alll these plans together , when were older we will do this. I talked to him like EVERYDAY. Everyone said we were cute together. But we fought about some stupid things sometimes. Like he was always with these girls and always went on and on about these girls and It was just annoying so we sometmes fought about that.
Then on Tuesday he said something about a break and seeing other people because he can't concentrate on his school work. Then I kind of the upset and that break turned into a break up. I serously don't know what to do. Like I really like him and I want him back so badld but he already said his mind is made up... etc. I know I should move on but I just can't move. I REALLY like him. I don't want him to date anyone else. It like makes me Il thinking about it. He said though he will always love me. I don't know when or if I should ask him to get back with me. Or how to act around him... or what to say or not to say...

ISneezeFunny · Feb 24, 2008, 06:25 PM

... so... you want to make him jealous so he'll come back... then what?

Once he's back, he won't leave again? You won't fight again?

Got to walk away. Making him jealous only makes you suffer. Trust me. It's best to walk away, and not care.

ESTERA_x3 · Feb 24, 2008, 06:34 PM

Awwww... I understand EXACTLY what your going through. And people they will always tell you to let it go.

But sometimes your heart doenst know how to let go, even though your head is screaming to.
And you know what, I think you shouldn't always listen to your head, because it's the heart that the most important organ in our body. Don't play games or try to get him jealous. Call him. Tell him that you need to talk, pour your heart out. If he cares about you, and loves you, he won't let you suffer anymore. And if he wants to be selfish, what can you do? Don't waste your time with games, whatever you do. Its not healthy for you, and won't help with anything. Talk to him. That the best thing you could do right now.

Homegirl 50 · Feb 24, 2008, 06:44 PM

If you think you have to make a guy jealous to get him back, you are delusional. He broke up with you, if he wanted you back, he would do it on his own. You cannot make someone want to be with you. He said his mind is made up, trying to make him jealous (if a person does not want to be with you they are not going to get jealous) or calling him will only make him angry.
I know you don't want to hear it, but you need to move on.

shygrneyzs · Feb 24, 2008, 06:45 PM

So you make him jealous in order to come back to you. That can backfire in a big way. He could get jealous and then go and hook up with another girl, or he could get ugly (behavior wise) to you and whoever you use to get him jealous.

It is not fair to anyone - to the guy you want back (because it is dishonest dealings) and it is using someone else to get to this guy. PLAYER!

dani04 · Feb 24, 2008, 07:22 PM

Originally Posted by ESTERA_x3

awwww.... i understand EXACTLY what your going through. and people they will always tell you to let it go.

But sometimes your heart doenst know how to let go, even though your head is screaming to.
and you know what, i think you shouldn't always listen to your head, because its the heart that the most important organ in our body. don't play games or try to get him jealous. call him. tell him that you need to talk, pour your heart out. if he cares about you, and loves you, he wont let you suffer anymore. and if he wants to be selfish, what can you do? don't waste your time with games, whatever you do. its not healthy for you, and wont help with anything. talk to him. that the best thing you could do right now.

Last time we were in a little fight I caled him and he hung up... and I dontknow what to sayy.
Do I wait for him or move on or what?

Homegirl 50 · Feb 24, 2008, 07:33 PM

If he wants to talk to you he will call you. Leave him alone. Trying to talk to him will do you no good.

ESTERA_x3 · Feb 24, 2008, 08:11 PM

Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

If he wants to talk to you he will call you. Leave him alone. Trying to talk to him will do you no good.

You need to put in consideration that people are different. And I don't think that trying to talk to him will do no good, because he might be waiting for her to talk to him, or call. You never know. That's why I think she should just call him and see what's going on.
Teenage boys are complicated, and its hard to understand them, I think she should do as much as she can to see if it will work. And if it doesn't at least she knows she tried. That way it will be easier to let him go in the end. She likes him, he likes her. And things might work out. So don't leave the girl hopeless, and heartbroken, support her. If it's a mistake, LET HER MAKE IT. Every mistake comes with a lesson, and every lesson makes you mature and wise.

dani04 · Feb 24, 2008, 08:17 PM

Originally Posted by ESTERA_x3

you need to put in consideration that people are different. and i dont think that trying to talk to him will do no good, because he might be waiting for her to talk to him, or call. you never know. thats why i think she should just call him and see whats going on.
teenage boys are complicated, and its hard to understand them, i think she should do as much as she can to see if it will work. and if it doesn't at least she knows she tried. that way it will be easier to let him go in the end. she likes him, he likes her. and things might work out. so dont leave the girl hopeless, and heartbroken, support her. if its a mistake, LET HER MAKE IT. every mistake comes with a lesson, and every lesson makes you mature and wise.

Thank you

N0help4u · Feb 24, 2008, 08:18 PM

Get out. Go places enjoy your life and if going fun places without him doesn't get him jealous and wish he was 'there with you' it is his loss and you had fun in the meantime.

Greg Quinn · Feb 24, 2008, 08:27 PM

I made my X jealous by showing her how much better off I am with out her.

dani04 · Feb 24, 2008, 08:29 PM

Originally Posted by Greg Quinn

I made my X jealous by showing her how much better off I am with out her.

And how did you do that?

Homegirl 50 · Feb 24, 2008, 09:28 PM

Originally Posted by ESTERA_x3

you need to put in consideration that people are different. and i dont think that trying to talk to him will do no good, because he might be waiting for her to talk to him, or call. you never know. thats why i think she should just call him and see whats going on.
teenage boys are complicated, and its hard to understand them, i think she should do as much as she can to see if it will work. and if it doesn't at least she knows she tried. that way it will be easier to let him go in the end. she likes him, he likes her. and things might work out. so dont leave the girl hopeless, and heartbroken, support her. if its a mistake, LET HER MAKE IT. every mistake comes with a lesson, and every lesson makes you mature and wise.

He said his mind was made up when she tried to talk to him before. I'm not leaving her hopelss, but when when someone breaks up with you, tells you their mind is made up, I'm not telling anyone to play games or keep calling them. He broke up with her, if he wants her back that is his call to make.
But if she wants to keep calling him, play jealousy games with him, that's her choice. She asked for an opinion, I gave mine.

ESTERA_x3 · Feb 24, 2008, 09:35 PM

Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

He said his mind was made up when she tried to talk to him before. I'm not leaving her hopelss, but when when someone breaks up with you, tells you their mind is made up, I'm not telling anyone to play games or keep calling them. He broke up with her, if he wants her back that is his call to make.
But if she wants to keep calling him, play jealousy games with him, that's her choice. She asked for an opinion, I gave mine.

But she also said they got in a fight, people say things they don't mean when they are mad.
And I'm just saying to call him this one last time, and not to play jealousy games.
If he keeps on ignoring you, then hunny move on, as hard as that sound, and nothing will get him more jealous than you moving on. But don't move on just to get him jealous, because that only hurts you. Don't make someone a priority when your only an option.