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    mikethebike Posts: 3, Reputation: 1
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    Jan 21, 2008, 09:13 PM
    Loose Attraction After Sex
    HELP!

    I'm still a teenager, and I began having sex with my best friend (a girl) recently. I thought that I was in love with her. She knew this, but wanted to explore her sexual side, with some help from me persuading her.

    I never have consistent feelings about her, especially after sex.

    I will feel completely in love with her during and before sex, but the second I am done I loose all attraction to her.

    - desperate for help

    Mike
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    Jan 21, 2008, 09:18 PM
    Hi Mike,

    Are you losing attraction for her? Ir is it just that the feelings of desire for her are gone after you've released?
    How old are you? Have you had previous relationships?

    Kal
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    Jan 21, 2008, 09:20 PM
    16.

    Its both the feelings of desire and the attraction. She wants to cuddle and just hold on to me, and I'm more worried about cleaning up. I have had one previous relationship that was long term, but it never went nearly this far.
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    Jan 21, 2008, 09:32 PM
    Sound like the old joke about me, ready to roll over and go to sleep.

    Towel or tissue by bed, trash can by bed, thow condom away, wipe off and then cuddle.

    And in many ways, you just need to wait for a while and just be happy with the snuggle, it is a lot safer, if you worry now, when that baby is crying and you can't snuggle because you have to get up and feed the baby, it will be alow worst.
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    Jan 21, 2008, 09:43 PM
    Continuing what Fr_Chuck is saying, those cleansing wipes are helpful too.
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