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Nov 20, 2007, 04:36 AM
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Laws of attraction
Okay so inquiring minds want to know, well, at least my inquiring mind wants to know. Does anyone have an answer to this question? Why do bad boys want good girls? I’m curious here.
I mean I know some of the reasons why good girls want or are attracted to bad boys sometimes. I know because I’m a good girl that has been with bad boys in the past. Of course, now I’m no longer interested in bad boys because bad boys only cause heartache, pain and grief - at least for me that’s all they did.
Now I’m looking for good guys, but still I keep coming across bad boys looking for and wanting to be with good girls. I’ve had some people tell me some reasons why bad boys want to be with good girls. I’ve experienced some of the why and the reasons with bad boys being with good girls myself in my past, but I want to know what you think. What do you all think and say is the reason why bad boys want to be with good girls?
There’s the pat answer of opposites attract, I know, but I’m looking for other suggestions on answers to the question. I’ve also had the answers given that bad boys want good girls because good girls usually aren’t as experienced and are more willing to experiment or so the guys think. It was also said that another reason why bad boys want good girls is because there’s less chance/risk of dealing with diseases when they’re with a good girl because good girls are usually clean as far as STDs, diseases and such. So, what other answers are there to the question of why bad boys want to be with good girls?Now that I’ve outgrown my “good girl wanting a bad boy” stage, this doesn’t make sense to me. It makes no sense at all when I see on peoples profiles on websites, “bad boy seeking good girl”. I mean could they be anymore contradictory with saying “bad boy seeks good girl” or “good girl seeks bad boy” - it just doesn’t fit or make much sense to me. Besides the fact that relationships between bad boy/girl and good girl/boy hardly ever work out in the end from what I’ve experienced myself and what I’ve known/seen with friends and other people.
So, what’s your thoughts on this “bad person seeking good person” thing?
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Nov 20, 2007, 11:25 AM
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 Originally Posted by nandan1568
Okay so inquiring minds want to know, well, at least my inquiring mind wants to know. Does anyone have an answer to this question? Why do bad boys want good girls? I’m curious here.
I mean I know some of the reasons why good girls want or are attracted to bad boys sometimes. I know because I’m a good girl that has been with bad boys in the past. Of course, now I’m no longer interested in bad boys because bad boys only cause heartache, pain and grief - at least for me that’s all they did.
Now I’m looking for good guys, but still I keep coming across bad boys looking for and wanting to be with good girls. I’ve had some people tell me some reasons why bad boys want to be with good girls. I’ve experienced some of the why and the reasons with bad boys being with good girls myself in my past, but I want to know what you think. What do you all think and say is the reason why bad boys want to be with good girls?
There’s the pat answer of opposites attract, I know, but I’m looking for other suggestions on answers to the question. I’ve also had the answers given that bad boys want good girls because good girls usually aren’t as experienced and are more willing to experiment or so the guys think. It was also said that another reason why bad boys want good girls is because there’s less chance/risk of dealing with diseases when they’re with a good girl because good girls are usually clean as far as STDs, diseases and such. So, what other answers are there to the question of why bad boys want to be with good girls?Now that I’ve outgrown my “good girl wanting a bad boy” stage, this doesn’t make sense to me. It makes no sense at all when I see on peoples profiles on websites, “bad boy seeking good girl”. I mean could they be anymore contradictory with saying “bad boy seeks good girl” or “good girl seeks bad boy” - it just doesn’t fit or make much sense to me. Besides the fact that relationships between bad boy/girl and good girl/boy hardly ever work out in the end from what I’ve experienced myself and what I’ve known/seen with friends and other people.
So, what’s your thoughts on this “bad person seeking good person” thing?
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The best way I could some this up is when your younger your looking for excitement and the oppisit of what you are(being bad or good), but as you get older your looking for more security and some one with common sense and smarts to maybe make a future with. Also your tired of the bad boy or girl thing and all the trouble that comes with that morall. Have a good one!
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