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        Okay so I have this friend... she tells me that she loves me... and I know for a fact that I can't return her love... at least the same love she wants me to return... she tells me that she wants to show that she really loves me... so what do I do?
     
     
    
    
    
    
    
    
  
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        Polite tell her that you are flattered by her feelings but you do not feel the same way about her but hope you guys can still remain friends
     
     
    
    
    
    
    
    
  
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        Is this like a lesbian thing, I thought you were a female?? 
     
     
    
    
    
    
    
    
  
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					  Originally Posted by  talaniman
					
				 
				Is this like a lesbian thing, I thought you were a female??? 
			
		 
	 
  I am a female... she has feelings for me and she tells me that she loves me and can make me happy
      
     
    
    
    
    
    
    
  
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        All you have to do is be honest with yourself, and then be honest with her.
     
     
    
    
    
    
    
    
  
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				All you have to do is be honest with yourself, and then be honest with her. 
			
		 
	 
 I am I tell her that all we can be is just friends... nothing more... I told her that there is a very slim chance that I'll return her feelings for her... I just don't want to hurt anyone... 
      
     
    
    
    
    
    
    
  
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        The truth may hurt, but being dihonest and led on, hurts more.
     
     
    
    
    
    
    
    
  
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				The truth may hurt, but being dihonest and led on, hurts more. 
			
		 
	 
 You're right... I'll tell her the truth
      
     
    
    
    
    
    
    
  
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