Okay so I have this friend... she tells me that she loves me... and I know for a fact that I can't return her love... at least the same love she wants me to return... she tells me that she wants to show that she really loves me... so what do I do?

Polite tell her that you are flattered by her feelings but you do not feel the same way about her but hope you guys can still remain friends

Is this like a lesbian thing, I thought you were a female??

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Originally Posted by talaniman

Is this like a lesbian thing, I thought you were a female???

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I am a female... she has feelings for me and she tells me that she loves me and can make me happy

All you have to do is be honest with yourself, and then be honest with her.

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Originally Posted by talaniman

All you have to do is be honest with yourself, and then be honest with her.

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I am I tell her that all we can be is just friends... nothing more... I told her that there is a very slim chance that I'll return her feelings for her... I just don't want to hurt anyone...

The truth may hurt, but being dihonest and led on, hurts more.

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Originally Posted by talaniman

The truth may hurt, but being dihonest and led on, hurts more.

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You're right... I'll tell her the truth