[mafiaangel180]

mafia, your taking that out of context

i understand completely what hes talking about when he talks about the hug/kiss/push thing. its a way of flirting, or teasing, meant to be light-hearted and playful.

i completely disdagree with mafia, as would many people here..

go NC, give her the space...

basicallly exactly what tala said

Yes, I very well could be taking it out of context. I mean, it's all about perspective as everyone has there own. Could it be this girl took it the way I took it, and perhaps this is why she isn't here? It's a possibility. I also think he should go no contact, so that's one thing we agree on. :)

[talaniman]

And some of the 'lesser-in-lovers' are really just toying with the relationship, using the other person for company or to ward off loneliness.

That's also the reason many have a hard time letting go, and moving on. The difference, advance notice, and shock! Once we cope with the shock, what power the dumper had, is gone.

[EuRa]

I appreciate all your advice. I am still giving her space. I'll keep you informed.