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kerristar · Dec 23, 2007, 07:29 AM

I defo think she likes you and just go in on Monday and see what she says there no harm in trying you never know what ashe might say and anyway I think she totally likes you

s_cianci · Dec 23, 2007, 07:31 AM

Sounds like she's definitely interested. Just take it slow and play it cool.

talaniman · Dec 23, 2007, 07:43 AM

She likes you and it should be a lot of fun getting to know her. Go slow and enjoy it.

alpha_zero · Dec 23, 2007, 10:23 AM

You ill keep you guys posted on Monday for sure, and thanks for the responses hearing others opinions and somewhat having your back fills you with a little more confidence sometimes

alpha_zero · Dec 23, 2007, 07:35 PM

Ahh jeeze I don't know why but I'm getting nervous lmao. This rarely happens to me lol. Im not afraid to ask her or anything lol if she says yes well good show game on, if she says no well then it is really her loss in the end not mine cause there are other girls who like me right now... this is weird lmao

talaniman · Dec 23, 2007, 08:54 PM

Go slow. There is no hurry.

talaniman · Dec 23, 2007, 08:57 PM

How long has this been going on? Its too soon for anything than a first date. Build a relationship, not fall in one.

alpha_zero · Dec 24, 2007, 12:31 AM

Son of a mothers lover this couldn't come at a more perfect time *smacks head* this other 21 year old girl I kind of liked to just told me she likes me and wants me to kiss her the next time I see her and saying all this kinky stuff sometime. I didn't know if she liked me so I was being a guy and PLAYING THE FIELD. Now I don't know what to do cause well this 21 yr old girl won't wait forever but what if the girl at work likes me too... damn choices choices

Ok lets lay it out the 21 yr old girl is preety, funny and smart and she don't drink like me cause I'm a fitness freak so her not drinking is a plus in my book

The girl at work is very very cute, smart and also funny. Except she is the party type and she drinks so I don't know cause since she's young and if she's drinking and around other guys that would cross my mind...

Gahh this is horrible lol, I might as well still ask her tomorrow and start to go out with the 21 yr old and take things from there and see how things go... DAMN!!

jeffatl · Dec 24, 2007, 01:02 AM

It's good to keep your options open... why not? Just make sure you are honest with both of them, or else you could end up with nobody...

Clough · Dec 24, 2007, 01:03 AM

For me, this situation wouldn't be a problem. When I was dating (a long time ago!), I dated a number of different women around the same time. Sounds like you have some choices here. Never know what will happen. Each day is new! :)

My advice is to still ask her out tomorrow, since that was your plan. I used to try to see how many women I could get to go out on a date with me. Was sort of a contest for myself!

alpha_zero · Dec 24, 2007, 01:05 AM

And this 21 year old is some piece of work she told me she wants me to ask her out and kiss her the next time I see her. I'm thinknig of playnig for a bit what they don't know can't hurt I guess and see which one I like more or so. I just never been in this kind of siuation this is killnig me lmao

Clough · Dec 24, 2007, 01:11 AM

Yeah, it would be "killing" me too! :D ;)

alpha_zero · Dec 24, 2007, 01:12 AM

I need you power clough, I need to know what you do lmao. Like man jeeze 3 other guys like the 21 yr old and she chose me and asked me to call her my girlfriend, but this girl form work I took a fancy for and this all happened on the same week/day the 21 yr old girl liking me, me liking the girl from work... why do I wish I was 80 and coudlnt get it up anymore... :p lmao

cheese124 · Dec 24, 2007, 01:20 AM

It does seam like she likes u. If u fell something back you should ask her out.

Clough · Dec 24, 2007, 01:26 AM

Originally Posted by alpha_zero

I need you power clough, i need to know what you do lmao. Like man jeeze 3 other guys like the 21 yr old and she chose me and asked me to call her my gf, but this girl form work i took a fancy for and this all happened on the same week/day the 21 yr old girl liking me, me liking the girl from work.....why do i wish i was 80 and coudlnt get it up anymore...:p lmao

Please just cool your jets and watch what you do say on this site, please. Okay? It is also used by children.

If I were in your shoes, I would be feeling less pressure about asking the girl at work out tomorrow. Maybe you might want to give it a second thought and also some time before you do ask her out. If it were me though, I would still ask her out. Just maybe not tomorrow. If I knew someone was really all that interested in me and if we had things in common, and she had other traits that I really liked, then I would be concentrating on her first.

jrebel7 · Dec 24, 2007, 01:30 AM

Originally Posted by alpha_zero

I need you power clough, i need to know what you do lmao. Like man jeeze 3 other guys like the 21 yr old and she chose me and asked me to call her my gf, but this girl form work i took a fancy for and this all happened on the same week/day the 21 yr old girl liking me, me liking the girl from work.....why do i wish i was 80 and coudlnt get it up anymore...:p lmao

Exciting time in your life but I would say to "cool your jets" just a bit. Take some long deep breaths, let your emotions get back down a few notches, decide which girl you feel more for and don't let the fact that other guys like the one girl but she chose you, guide your decision. Keep your perspective and also your enthusiasm. I am just saying, don't date a girl for the wrong reason. Enjoy this time in your life... don't wish it away just because you have difficult choices ahead. Be thankful you have choices!! You are blessed! :p A lot of guys would trade places with you to have these choices!! Best of luck! Chose well and wisely! :p

alpha_zero · Dec 24, 2007, 01:32 AM

Just to let you know the choose well and wisely never worked out to well... you should have asked that to my driver instructor lmao jk jk

jrebel7 · Dec 24, 2007, 01:40 AM

Originally Posted by alpha_zero

just to let you know the choose well and wisely never worked out to well....you shoulda asked that to my driver instructor lmao jk jk

:p It does sound rather boring to do so and can't say I followed my own advice very often. LOL I am sort of a "fly by the seat of my pants" (airplane pilots use to say this) kind of person, or use to be anyway. Just hoping you find the gal that will treat you right. Much luck to you!

I would like to hear the story though about your driving instructor but for now I bid you goodnight! Early morning tomorrow, well, today I guess now here in Oklahoma!

talaniman · Dec 24, 2007, 08:05 AM

Go slow and make up your own mind, and don't let anyone rush you.

alpha_zero · Dec 24, 2007, 01:00 PM

K well UPDATE: What I'm about to tell you I absolutely despise and I honestyl hate doing it and I have never done it in my life but there was no other way or choice. I was going to meet her at work of course and ask her if she wanted to go out. Stupid me knowing it is christmas eve the store was packed to the point of combustion. So I went upstairs to think cause she wouldn't have the time to talk and on the account she went for her break already. So I took a pen and paper and wrote her a sweet note. Saying things like *everything about her is beautiful* and asked her if she wanted to go out sometime. So I got a gift card for my rents and went to her check stand and when she saw me she gave me this look she always gives me when she sees me and smiles. So we had small talk for like 5 seconds I wished her a merry christmas gave her the note and never looked back and walked out. I didn't want to ask her another time cause I set my mind to today and I DID not want to do it this way it's to cheesy but my options caved in so I did that, hopefully ill see her soon or she will call me I do not know... lol I hate myself. Lmao