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alpha_zero · Dec 19, 2007, 02:16 PM

Ok so I met this girl at University and she is 21 and I am 19. We got along great and I started to like her. We texted each other everyday and like every minute of the day. She was going out for a guy for a year but he moved far away but she still kept contact with her. Me liking her I was being nice, sweet and patient with her. She said she would give me a chance cause I'm a nice guy. Next thing I know she texted me last night her saying that her ex is coming soon. She said she wouldn't be able to contain herself and she would be all over him probably. I thought enough was enough I told her she had to grow up and move on. She has been talknig about him a lot before all of this anyway and I was the most patient person ever. I told her I was sick of it and she made me feel really bad. I told her if I was her I would have never make her feel that way cause I know how $hitty that is to do to someone. So now she claims she is the victim and says she is going to start ignoring me now and on Facebook she typed on my wall saying *whatever whatever you're a fool* I just can't take it really I'm just so pissed at how she's been treating me lately no regard for me what so ever. I don't plan on talknig to her until she talks to me first if not then well I move on. I Just want to know if I was right to finally crack a bit and finally tell her that I was sick on how she kept throwing him at me and was being selfish.

ilovcali · Dec 19, 2007, 02:23 PM

Sick of It All! That is a good band.

As for your present case, you're to blame. Why were you waiting for this ONE girl? You let her string you along for no reason at all. You're in college dude. I wish I was still in college (I sort of am, grad school) because it's the easiest time ever to meet chicks.

She's being mean to you now because you're the defenseless puppy dog who can't fend for himself. She throws the bone, you run and go get it.

Be a man. She is rude and mean to you. CANCEL HER. You're the one who needs to move on. Not her.

Anyway, you know she has used you, and you let it happen. Now it's your time to get yourself to gether and MOVE FORWARD. Away from her.

--cali

talaniman · Dec 19, 2007, 04:51 PM

If you going to be mad at her, just acknowledge your part as she told you she had someone and gave you a chance, now its over and back to the other guy. She used you, you let her. Its over, move on. After what she told you, you should never have invested so much into this. Learn fron this.