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    mistake1111 Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Dec 11, 2007, 09:31 PM
    Pregnant after one night stand
    I recently discovered I was pregnant off a one nightstand. I want to keep the baby but he doesn't what should I do? :confused:
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    Dec 11, 2007, 09:32 PM
    If you want to keep it than keep it. It is your decision of course.
    It is a hard decision but keeping a baby is one you wouldn't regret.
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    Dec 11, 2007, 09:43 PM
    Abortion is going to leave you with lots of regret, so don't do it. If anything, put it up for adoption, but not abortion. Sounds like you are wanting to keep it so I would keep it, don't listen to him. Hope he decides to help you out with the baby!
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    Dec 11, 2007, 11:37 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Bdfoster31
    Abortion is going to leave you with lots of regret, so don't do it. If anything, put it up for adoption, but not abortion. Sounds like you are wanting to keep it so I would keep it, don't listen to him. Hope he decides to help you out with the baby!
    Adoption can cause just as much regret as abortion does if she isn't really willing to give up the child. It isn't right to push people on this subject.

    TO the OP do what you feel is best for you. It doesn't matter whether he wants it or nt, you have every right to keep the child. Also, it doesn't matter whether he decides to help out or not, with a valid pat. Test, he is required to, and if he elects not to, he will sit in jail for it.
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    Dec 12, 2007, 03:47 AM
    Well, she didn't say anything about wanting to give the baby up for adoption...
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    Dec 12, 2007, 10:07 PM
    Thanks everyone for your input
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    Dec 13, 2007, 08:56 AM
    It really is your decision to make for what's best for this child.

    From the sounds of it you may face being a single parent, but if you're up to it than more power to you.

    Good luck
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