[ishtar]

I am a 25 year old female. I am engaged. Currently I am very busy with my career life and I can't afford getting pregnant. My fiancé and I agreed on delaying marriage for the time being. We usually have a very superficial sexual contact during which he puts on a condom. I am still a virgin according to medical examination. I know that hymen can permit sperms entery through tiny pores. My fiancé wouldn't put the condom right from the beginning and lately I had this paranoia that I can get pregnant from the pre-ejaculate because I know it contains sperms. The last time we had sexual contact was the first day after I finished my period... could I be pregnant?

[charlotte234s]

It is possible. You will have to wait until the day your period is due and see if it comes. If it doesn't take a HPT.

[Razen]

I believe you are not pregnant , because you still virgin . I now it's hard to wate until the period time, but I feel you are not

[Fr_Chuck]

Well first if he is entering you part of the way, that is debatable if you are a virgin or not, all depends on ones view. If he is in part of the way and does not have a condom on, the early fluid does have sperm and you can be pregnant. Many women from normal life, using tampons, expercise normally break their hymen, so it would be normal for that to have been long broken from other activities.

But sexual contact with no protection equals pregnancy. So if you can't afford to be so, don't be doing the sexual activity

[LearningAsIGo]

I have to agree with Fr_Chuck 100%. Culturally, some place a lot of emphasis on the hymen as "true virginity" but penetration itself = sex in many opinions.

Physically speaking, if he is inside you (at all) there is always a chance of pregnancy occurring. The chance is significantly less of course, if additional protection is used correctly. If he's going to wear a condom, he should the entire time you are together physically