[packer2007]

I have been seeing this guy for about 6 weeks. We have only seen each other 4 times, at my place for about 1-2 hours each time. He calls me 2-3 times per day. He got divorced 6 years ago due tto working so much, all the time. He told me if I didn't mind him working so much and his jod(a cop) that I shouldn't have a problem with it. I don't have a problem with his time being limited by job, but just once in awhile would like to see him. I know its hard to, so I am dealing with it because I like him so much. Should I just limit myself to him and be satisfied with the little time we have or still put myself out there? Or do I talk to him about if were dating, friends or what?(by the way he is great in every way but he is into the group sex, swinging and sex clubs, I am not and it seems a lot of guys that are normal and decent in every way are into that thing. And I seem to want o try things but I don't know, I guess I am falling for him-we are both 47 and in my previous question everyone told me to dump him and look on, but that is hard when you have noone)

[BadHairYear]

Eek, I think that you should talk to him. Tell him that he need time for you too if he plans to make this work. It's not fair to you. Tell him how you feel about the situtation. And if you don't like him liking sex clubs and such (which I think is weird), than tell him that he needs to change and your willing to do the same. Always talk about things. Never yell, unless you NEED to. GOOD LUCK!