[china_mm019]

There is this guy that I'm not sure if I still like him and I'm not sure if he still likes me, because he doesn't call or write me anymore. We never went out and he wasn't my boyfriend, we just hanged around like friends even though we knew that we liked each other. This guy #1 has a brother(guy #2) that is four years older than me and he likes me, he has told me that he has a crush on me and would like to go out with me. I don't like him, I think I still like his brother (guy #1) But lately I have been thinking on guy #2 and I even ask myself do I like him? I even get blushy and feel butterflies on my stomach. My question is that should I give guy #2 a chance? But @ the same time I ask myself what if guy #1 still likes me but he is just testing on how I react?

[CaptainForest]

If guy #1 is basically ignoring you, then it is time to move on.

You say though he doesn't call/write anymore, what about you? Do you call/write him? Try, and if he really doesn't respond, then it is time to move on to someone else.

His brother (guy #2)... that is an option. But don't go out with him just to get guy 1. Since guy 1 seems not to be interested.

[fredg]

Hi,
I agree with the other answer.
Since this boy hasn't talked with you for awhile, then move on.
If you don't care for his brother, then why bother with him, too.
You will have many times when you have to decide when to go out with someone, and base it on how you feel about the person.
Being brothers doesn't matter.
I do wish you good luck, and please meet some new boys. You will find one who is just right for you!

[bizygurl]

I agree with the answers above.Do you really like brother number two, because you have honest feelings for him or do you like him because he has feelings for you? Its always nice to have someone intested in us, its very flattering and makes us feel good, even if we don't return the feelings. It does boost our confidence. But if you are seriously considering going out with someone who you don't think you like as much as the brother number one then don't do it. There are plenty of guys out there. Date someone where the feelings are mutual for you both.:)

[s_cianci]

It sounds like guy #1 never made any kind of move, so guy #2 is fair game if you feel you truly like him. If it's just a rebound thing in getting over guy #1 or a way of possibly getting back with him, inasmuch as he is his brother, then I'd advise against it. Guy #2 has evidently been honest and strightforward about his feelings so it's not fair to lead him on.