Should I send my ex flowers who is getting married in two weeks
I casually dated this girl over a year ago who was really, really, really into church. Then I moved away. She said over and over and over and over and over again she wanted to keep in touch and be there for me. When I said that doesn't happen, she argued with me, and insisted she would. Then a little more than a year ago, she stopped replying to E-mails as often. A year ago, the last E-mail I got from her was that we'll definitely keep in touch.
She did not reply to calls or E-mails after that. I left her a plea in Dec 2006. I sent her a graduation gift in May 2007 with a letter about how disappointed I was. Never heard from her.
I learned she is getting married in two weeks to a pastor.
OK, so I'm sort of vindictive. Should I send her some really nice flowers and say, "I just wanted to let you know I was thinking of you. I don't know where you are or what you are doing, but you said you wanted to keep in touch with me."
I wish I had sent a ton of red roses for Valentine's Day. That would have really forced something.
I'm terrible.
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