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    cissy0801 Posts: 129, Reputation: 6
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    Nov 28, 2007, 02:38 AM
    losing another best friend
    Ok so I have a bestie call her x. X and I used to be really close friends that we treat each other like sisters.
    Then one day I felt I wasn't very close to her because we had changed classes which I understand. But when I tried to talk to x she ditches me for a girl called r. She's got too much pride and arrogance that I hate and x started to change people for this crazy girl no one likes.

    Meanwhile, I find another person (call her z) as I realise I have been ditched. I became close to her and she started openingup to me.

    As x saw me with z, she immediately act as I was like her best friend again but I refused and z decided not to talk to her and I followed.

    A year past and I found everything had changed. I made friends with another girl call her v. Z and x started talking which Ifelt happy and I started to feel more right with r.
    But as the days past I felt like z is ditching me for x and whenever I talk to her she goes oh. Um hang with v today I'm hanging with x.
    Especially when I give her advice she and x have been talking about she goes to me and says oh thanks but I like x's better.
    Whenever I try to talk to her or hang out with her I scream really loud and I'm only 3 meters away she ignores me.
    I try to ask her but she gets all annoyed and walks away.

    I really like her but I feel like x is stealing z away or maybe z lost interest.
    But I am confused because when x'd away she backchats about z for a little while.
    Do you think I am jealous.and I have no idea what I should do.

    (Sorry about the paragaphs I typed this on a cellphone)
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    N0help4u Posts: 19,823, Reputation: 2035
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    Nov 28, 2007, 08:09 AM
    My sister had the same problem when we were kids and then my one daughter had the same problems. I could never figure out why they can't all get along instead of putting you in the middle. My daughters one friend x and z were really bad with it because if they saw Stephie with the other one they would tell her they can't be friends with her because she was with the other one and then if either one of them were with one of their other friends they acted like they didn't even know Stephie.

    I call it childish school girl stuff and maybe you should just find some friends that don't play the games.

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