[Miszulaki]

Good day everyone!

Here is my life story put in a small version!
Im 25 yrs old and I've been living with my father for the past 5 years.
I got married at the age of 17 yrs old in order to get out of the house! Which I divorced 4 years after... Prior to that all my life I was living with my mother since my parent got divorce at the age of 7... My mother became an alcoholic when I was 13 years and still not admitting she has a problem... I lived a very unstable life... I had good moments as well don't get me wrong but I'm writing this to make a point... My father never really cared about me or at least cared the way he knew how to care. When I was a baby he wouldn't want to change my dipper. Anyhow, now I live with him and for me it's hell! He only thinks of himself! He buy the food he like, the TV is his, I don't do anything, he complains about life all the time, jaleous of everybody however not making any step to change his life. He keep on taking what people offers but doesn't give to anyone... My clutch broke and it was an expensive reparation and didn't even ask if I needed help even though he takes the car sometimes... We don't have any communication, I can't express anything because if I do he won't talk to me for a week! I feel bad feeling like this because in a way I have a place to live... The only solution I see is to move out asap... However my financial situation is not the bast! Should I just move out and not care if I have something to wear or eat but at least I have a piece of mind? Am I right to think like this about my father? I just feel like cutting contact with both my parents because all they caused was psychological, emotional painand still are in some way. Im seeing a therapist however if I still live with him or have contact will I be able to move on and be happy? I personally don't think so...
Thank you for reading this and your answers!
I need your help!

[tawnynkids]

I say you move out on your own, continue therapy and seek to improve your financial situation. Maybe you have a friend you could move in with for a bit until you can get a better job? Your dad sounds very selfish and you obviously have a troubled relationship with him. I think counseling really is your best option to heal and move forward, with or without him in your life. But you need to separate yourself from him and learn to be happy with who you are. Good luck.

[Miszulaki]

Thank you for your answer!
I actually just got a job and I will be moving out pretty soon!
It's very well paid so I won't have to worry that much!
Everything is going for the best!

[tawnynkids]

Good for you. I hope things continue to get better and better for you. :)