[scaredwoman69]

Last night my ex told me he wanted me back... about 4months ago he walked out on my after a year cause he told me i wasn't his type... then last night he told me that it was all excusses... and he trully does love me and he wants to work things out with me... im so scared and confussed... and im afraid of my heart getting ripped out again but im still in love with him and he is in love with me... what should i do>>>?? please help:confused:

[madaman]

That's a really tough situation. He walked out once before, and I imagine you spent the last 4 months in pain. Only you can decide if he's worth a second chance, but you have to realize that you might end up going through this all again. Is he worth the pain?

[Marriedguy]

4 months is a long time. If you can accept the fact the he may have been involved with someone in that time. I say go for it. As far as you getting your heart broken again that is a risk everyone faces.

[cerisa]

What do you have to lose sweetie? You will be on guard with him, it will not be as before. But if you both want it to work, it will. Good Luck

[shellbell225]

My situation is the opposite. I realize that I wanted my ex back after 4 years apart. I know in my heart that I love him and he's the one, but I know he is afraid that I will hurt him again. I say give it a chance... I'm still waiting to see.;)

[Zell]

Are you sure he's in love with you?? Personally I wouldn't tell someone I loved that they weren't my type then leave them for 4 months... This guy sounds confused on what he wants but I'm going on very little information...
Is this guy really worth the risk of getting hurt again?

[heat515]

I think you need to make sure that things have changed and that you want him back. You must do what's best for you, and if he isn't, than do it. But, if you do love him and I say go for it. Love is chance we all take. Good Luck!