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hollyxxx · Sep 29, 2007, 11:14 AM

OK was on hear last week because by boyfriend broke up with me and I was a mess and I feal so much better over the last couple of days.

I started using chat rooms agen which helped me gain confdences talking to men agen anyway I have met some one on a chat room there isn't anthing happening yet other than flirting and chatting he's really really nice

But he's 34 and I'm 21 I'm not bothed about age should I be

Also is it bad that I am moving on so quick
Because I feal like I'm being unfaful evan my ex broke up with me

I gess I'm just confussed

I just want to be happy

I'm sorry if I sound stupied I feal stupied

Jiser · Sep 29, 2007, 11:16 AM

That's quite a large age difference. I have good friends who are in their 30's and I am 21. I am not sure I would want to be in a relationship with a 30 year old though. Try to keep busy and in time things will be easier - trust me on that. Its good that your moving on to ;)

hollyxxx · Sep 29, 2007, 11:17 AM

Thanks for the advice

mconroy1399 · Sep 29, 2007, 01:26 PM

Hi.. I am 30 years old and my boyfriend is 43.. age is just a number and shouldn't matter depending on whether what other people think. If I thought that way then I wouldn't be with my boyfriend. We get along great and have a lot of things in common. I find it easier to be with an older guy because they can be more mature and aren't in to the games that boys your age might be. But please because you haven't met him just take things slow. It also depends on the maturity of the people that are involved. Please don't feel stupid because we have all been there at one point or another. Also you aren't cheating on your boyfriend and you shouldn't feel bad because you aren't together anymore and it is his lost not yours. If you want to be happy then do the things that make you happy in this world. Go out with your friends, get to know new people and just have fun with life. This is the best advice that I can give you.

hollyxxx · Sep 29, 2007, 01:30 PM

Thank u so much that's a lot of help thank u

talaniman · Sep 30, 2007, 02:44 AM

Age doesn't matter, but go slow. The problem lies when we see something that has potential, we jump right in. Go slow and see if this is what you really want. What's the hurray anyway??

missb · Oct 1, 2007, 08:28 AM

No there's nothing wrong with moving on but seeing someone from a chat room could be very dangerous.he could be typing any and everything to make it seem like you will like him but be careful.its really not safe to meet someone like that.try going out to the mall or hanging out wit your female friends or something, you should meet someone that way