[sawyera bisiga]

Just be polite curitous offer to buy her a drink and don't be CHEAP! That's a big no
Just show her how nice you are tell her she's buetifull but don't say hot and it will all work out

This is coming from a 14 year old

[OurGreatestYear]

Haha buy her a drink is out of the question, unless it's a cola or a coffee, as I am 18 and she's 16 haha.

But anyway, thanks for the advice. I'd def. never say "you look HOT" to her, ever. That'd just be tacky, rude and dumb. But I'm all for telling her she looks beautiful.

[wakeupwalt]

I get this "she hasn't called, texted me, emailed me days, is she ignoring me or mad at me, etc in a lot these questions.

You know, it's the holidays, people are with their family and don't want to be bugged.

I have this woman that I like and I called her and left her a message and she hasn't responded... yeah, I'm curious if I might have done something or said something inappropriate or offended her, scared in a way, but I'm not going to keep thinking that she's pissed or anything until I know for sure by what she says when she does respond or when I talk to her again. Communication is so overlooked these days.

I had one question on another site that said... I sent her a Facebook message and she hasn't replied, what do I do or It says she's in a relationship on her myspace/facebook but she flirts with me all the time, what's going on?

Uh... first off, don't read too much into it, because you will spend HOURS beating yourself up not knowing, which could be something as little as, no internet access at home, or was on the road, no internet access at the hotel. She hasn't checked or updated her Facebook, etc.

The best bet is to play it like she has a boyfriend until you know for sure she doesn't.

Back to your question: If you know she has no boyfriend, talk to her. Don't call her every damn day, she has her own life, let her live it. On the other hand, don't wait two weeks between connecting with her.

I know this may be a new concept to people but TALKING with her is the BEST bet. Ask her, what's up, what she's been up to the last week or the last time you two connected... you better be genuinely interested though, otherwise why waste your time?

Hope that helps
-Matt