[Just Me Nothing Else]

:confused: hii I am 14 and I have been ceeing my boyfriend for 5 weeks now and I want to doo things with him but I am scared because I have been fingered after a drunking night and the boy asked me if I shaved but I hadn't then so he has been telling evevry one that am hair and I have a big whole so I feel so embarresd and I want to shave just I don't no what style please help me x

[Gernald]

Kind of hard to give advice to that... hmmmm.
Lets start with not getting drunk, it would have never happened otherwise.
Second, dump him!! He's really a jerk if he's been going around telling people about you and his affairs. The rumors will die down overtime, unfortunately however if your 14 there will be other rumors because your sleeping around.
Third, style?? Is there a style for that? Don't do things like that to please guys. Do what makes you feel comfortable. If it really bothers you, you can get a bakini wax at certain tanning salons, or nail shops. Kind of weird but people do it otherwise they wouldn't offer.
Sorry I can't be of more help, I guess the best advice would be to dump the looser.
Good Luck.

[shygrneyzs]

You pick the style, there is no set "style" to shaving the pubic region. Some shave all and some shave parts, as to leave a sort of design and some just leave that area natural. You are 14 and why worry about this? Why do you want to shave? If you are serious about this, please read as much as you can about this. There are risks. Here are some guides:
Guide to Shaving Pubic Hair
How to Get Rid of Pubic Hair
Three Reasons Why Women Shouldn't Shave Their Pubic Hair - Associated Content

About the guy - dump him. Any guy who would go around and you got drunk and allowed more play than you might have not, had you been sober, is not worth any effort on your part. I would be more concerned about why you got drunk at 14. Is this a pattern for you? Do you drink often? Drunk people do things they often regret and wish they could forget. Some girls even end up pregnant. You are on the way to that if you do not wake up to consequences of your actions.

About the rumors - rumors come and go. It will be all the hot topic now but it will die down. Sure, there may be someone who might remember what this guy said, but honestly, that is not going to count. You will be far better remembered for your character now and in the future. Do not let one incident mark you for life. No one is perfect. We have all done at least one thing we wish we could take back. So we learn from those things. As you have also learned.