[scottyboynmmc]

Hi Everyone,

Let me start by telling a bit about myself, I am 33 and now single, I own a house, I have a good job and never been able to be happy in Love. I was in a relationship with that nice girl for over 3 years now. She dump me 2 weeks ago mainly because I was not paying attention to her and not showing any love for her. She is hurt to do it but she was not happy anymore. I never realised how much I needed her and loved her until she leaves. I told her that we should give it another try and I would take care of her more because I know what it is like to lose her. She says that we were getting on each others nerves and we were not meant for each other. I am devastated and disoriented now because I can't believe she is really gone. At some point in our relationship I wasn't sure and was afraid to really commit to her and now that she is gone I want her back. I must be crazy or something.

[AustProd6]

Buddy, I feel 4 U. But if you want her back, move on quickly ( or seem to have). No contact. Make out life is good. Dress a little better than you did. Get a different haircut. Give the illusion all is sweet. Smile a lot (hell I know that is hard).
You will either win her attention or find someone new. Either may not be that bad.

[scottyboynmmc]

We had those little break up during all those years and now she said that I should have told her those things before, and that her mind is set and she can't change her mind again. She is not seeing anybody else I think. I think it is too late for us and she doesn't give me any hope that it will come back someday. Just have a hard time to deal with that.