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    QueenCleo Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Oct 15, 2007, 06:05 PM
    Torn Between two lovers
    Hi,

    I have a boyfriend for over three years before I left to work abroad. We already have plans of getting married in the next two years. He is the love of my life but things have changed. While overseas, I met another guy until one day I woke up I was already in love with him. I was so confused so I went back home and met my boyfriend to assess my feelings. Though I was with him I can't keep the other guy off my mind.

    Now I'm back abroad and seeing the other guy again. I'm really so confused, I broke up with the first guy but it's really hurting me...

    I don't know who to choose they are both important to me...
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    Oct 15, 2007, 09:09 PM
    Who is on your mind now? Will you come home after studying or just stay abroad? Well, I'd say if you come home then the home guy should be chosen, but if you stay abraod then the abraod guy! But most important is who do you think about most of the time?
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    Oct 15, 2007, 09:46 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by QueenCleo
    Hi,

    I have a bf for over three years before i left to work abroad. We already have plans of getting married in the next two years. He is the love of my life but things have changed. While overseas, i met another guy til one day i woke up i was already inlove with him. I was so confused so i went back home and met my bf to assess my feelings. though i was with him i can't keep the other guy off my mind.

    Now im back abroad and seeing the other guy again. im really so confused, i broke up with the first guy but it's really hurting me...

    i dont know who to choose they are both important to me...
    Well in my opinion, the best way to see what you want is to not be with either of them because if either one finds out about the other your going to hurt one of them. And if you care like you say you do then you won't want that. So maybe you should just be single for a while until you know for sure what you want. And make sure its not the guys looks your in love with. Get to know him more. Who he is and ihis personality. Maybe he might not be who you think he is. People do tend to change.. . Good luck
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    Oct 16, 2007, 06:41 AM
    Dump them both and start again. You obviously are playing both. Cut and run before your life is way to complicated.
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