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gsusisking · Sep 28, 2007, 03:50 AM

So about 5 months ago there was this guy I liked. We'll I recently checked his myspace and I think he's single!! I want to talk to him. Basically, I meet him where he works and the minute we made eye contact 'sparks flew' : P Anyway, so I wrote him a letter saying that if he didn't have a girl friend then I'd love to talk or something, and I had my little sister and mom deliver the letter to him (I know that probably wasn't a good idea, but that's beside the point : P ) anyway, I soon found his myspace and saw that he was TAKEN! We'll that explained why I never got a response back because I even left him my number and myspace url. Anyway, I was just recently on his page and all the pics of he and his girl are off his page! I'm pretty sure this means his single!! So here are my questions: 1. Am I probably correct to think that if you REMOVE pics of your bf/gf, it probably means your single? 2. If you were this guy, we didn't know each other very well but we DEFINITELY had some chemistry the few times we saw each other, would you like if I contacted you on your myspace, out of the blue with something like "hey, whats up," or something? Do guys LIKE to be PURSUED? 3. How can I write to him without seeming 'creepy' I mean I want to get a response not have him thinking "God, won't she leave me alone!" : P 4. How can I make it so it's not awkward, SINCE he got that letter months ago, I want to do this right! Keep in mind, we haven't EVER even had a real conversation! We don't really know each other, that's why I'm pretty sure the only way that I can 'talk' to him is through myspace, because I can't go to his job! Awkward! :p Help me out here people! : ) Thank you so much!! :confused:

sGt HarDKorE · Sep 28, 2007, 03:59 AM

Maybe invite him and some of his and your friends to a movie or something. That way he will be comfortable around them and you can talk to him. I don't think you should write notes because it kind of makes you look weak. If you want to find out ask him up front so he has to have an answer. And bring it up casually like, so how are things with ____(Girlfriends name)?
And he may say good, or that they are separated and then just go on from there

LearningAsIGo · Sep 28, 2007, 05:57 AM

Are you a friend on his myspace page? If not, request it and wait. If so, just post something like "Happy Friday! How've you been?" and see if he responds.

You already sent him a letter, so it might be best to wait for him to get in touch with you. If you really want to pursue it, I would start slow since you haven't talked to each other yet.

Good luck :)

gsusisking · Sep 28, 2007, 02:44 PM

Originally Posted by LearningAsIGo

Are you a friend on his myspace page? If not, request it and wait. If so, just post something like "Happy Friday! How've you been?" and see if he responds.

You already sent him a letter, so it might be best to wait for him to get in touch with you. If you really want to persue it, I would start off slow since you haven't talked to each other yet.

Good luck :)

What about something like: "I know we've never spoke more than a couple of words to each other but I thought I'd just say hi. How are you doing? How is school and everything?:)