[teddy72]

My husband jokes with me about me having a boyfriend and I don't find it funny at all. I tell him that I would never do that to him being that I've been through it before. He asks me do you really love me or do you feel that your stuck here? I tell him all the time that I love him and that I'm happy. I may not be happy all the time but who is. After the birth of my son there was awhile where I didn't want to have sex with him. I didn't feel good about myself and didn't want anyone to look at me. I have since then I have changed and come to love myself and have been able to show my love for him more. He just comes out with "hows your boyfriend?" or " you feel different, your loose why?" when I haven't done anything with anyone or anything (if you get my meaning). He also says that I'm starting to like different things and not sure where I'm getting it from. Kuama sutra!! What do I do or even say to him that I'm not already saying to him.:confused:

[Marily]

I will just plainly ignores his remarks its not worth getting upset for.

[cutybumbum]

Maybe he is just jealouse about new born baby, and he don't know how to deal with it , maybe you don't pay the same attention as u paid before.

[LearningAsIGo]

He sounds insecure to me. All you can do is try and reasure him that you would never, ever do that. Also remind him that you find those comments hurtful because they imply that he doesn't trust you. Ask him to please stop and if he doesn't, consider counseling to get to the root of his problem.

Good luck

[talaniman]

For whatever reason he cannot take the hint to drop those inuendo's, then you may have to snap on him, a time or two.