[lost??]

Hey. Me and my girlfriend have been going together for about a year and a half. Recently she's been acting very differently. She doesn't want to come over as much or doesn't always want me to come over all the time like she used to. We've been very good to each other. We've had fights but usually got through it. The other day she tells me she's not happy anymore and isn't sure what is making her feel this way but thinks its me. I'm not clingly and always give her her space. She said she doesn't want to rush into anything and wants to see if we can work it out. I've been understanding and told her to take time to figure out what she wants. I haven't talked to her in about a day and I don't plan to, I'm going to let her contact me. Am I doing the right thing by giving her her space?

[GlindaofOz]

Yes. That is absolutely the right thing to do.

How old are the both of you?

[lost??]

We're both in our early 20's. It's the second major relationship for each of us.

[justhaveaquestion]

That may be doing a good thing but onlyyy if she wants space some girls like me when I'm unhappy need something to cheer them up to see the brighter side of thinngs like flowers or a night or to dinner. When she finally does call you maybe you should try those two things try to have fun cause if you can make a girl laugh you'll keep her around.