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    Aug 24, 2007, 01:42 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by GlindaofOz
    I am going to whip out my excellent relationship analogy:

    A relationship is like a rowboat. What happens in a rowboat when only one person rows? The boat spins in circles and you get nowhere. All you get is tired and frustrated. Now when two people row the boat sails smoothly and get where you want to go.

    My question to you is who is paddling?
    I just wanted to say thank you very much for taking your time to give me a little insight, whether I like it or not. I know I'm not alone in this, and I wanted to not only thank YOU, but everyone else who has dropped in and given some insight.

    I don't know any of you personally, but I have a lot of respect and admiration for every one of you.
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    Aug 24, 2007, 01:45 PM
    We are all here to help. I think that we all care about everyone that we help and only want to see them do what's best and what is the healthiest thing for them based on the info that we have.

    You are more then welcome.
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    Aug 24, 2007, 03:27 PM
    Take time to le the emotional dust settle, and then have an honest conversation with your girl. By taking time I mean don't run to her with your insecurity, let her call you and want to know whts up!
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    Aug 24, 2007, 05:16 PM
    I feel that she may not know what she wants... but she sure as hell knows what's she is doing. And this guy she suddenly has a huge crush on... which she said is not something she would act on, should be the emotion and feelings she should portray towards me.

    I can't believe that I'm saying this, but even though I'm in love with her. I might have to break up with her.

    Maybe it's what she needs and I need. She said that she doesn't want to break up and realize that she wants me in her life and know that it's over. I don't know if I could get back with her or not. But if I did there would have to be some changes.

    I just need to figure this out, which is just eating at me. I'll ignore her for a bit.

    Kevin
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    Aug 24, 2007, 05:47 PM
    Let yourself get sorted out before making any big decision. You got a lot of new info since you posted your question. It's a lot to digest.

    Let us know how everything goes.
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