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NowWhat · Aug 21, 2007, 06:59 AM

Never say never! :) You don't know what life has in store for you!

I HAVE to shop today. If I don't, my kid is going to school barefooted. But, no, she doesn't have to have 5 pairs of shoes. What can I say, I like her to look cute. :)

startover22 · Aug 21, 2007, 08:06 AM

Oh, NowWhat... job good? Daughter good?
I love school shopping, sounds like you might have a fun day ahead of you. Cal, I hope you get good prices on your school clothes this year...
GOOD MORNING>>>

shatteredsoul · Aug 21, 2007, 08:36 AM

Nowwhat, good luck with the school shopping, it can be tedious! The first day went very well for both of the kids so that made me feel good.
HEy good morning to you STart!! I miss you. IT feels like I haven't talked to you in forever..
Today is Myke's birthday, my friend who died on April 21st. Four months before he turned 23. I celebrate his life today, the person he was, and the person I am aspiring to be after knowing him. Happy Birthday Mykey!! I sure do miss you and I hope you see the love all around you from everyone who knew you. YOu are a special soul and a kindred spirit and I am thankful to have known you, as brief as it was, it was life changing. YOu are still with me in my heart and in my memories...
Good Morning everyone, hope you have a great day!!

startover22 · Aug 21, 2007, 08:47 AM

Aww, Shattered, so sweet to honor him like that. It has only been four months? Wow, I feel like I have known you forever! Hope you are doing well, sounds like you are.. the kiddos too.
I am irritated with the boys' mom, I will go there a little later. I need more time. Hugs, Start

shatteredsoul · Aug 21, 2007, 08:57 AM

Ok I want to hear what is up with that! Yes, it does feel like I have known you for a lifetime. Maybe because you have been there for me for so much. Thank you for that, you have helped me tremendously to be able to come to work without crying or feeling like driving right off the road. Did you get my email? I believe it is so true.
Are you getting ready for school? I hope everything is going good for you, besides the boys' mom.
Well it is getting ready to pour here. I feel so bad for all of those people that got hit by the hurricane. The flooding in the midwest looked awful too. Boy, Mother Nature is talking but we sure ain't listening!

startover22 · Aug 21, 2007, 10:39 AM

Just the fact that she has night time and daytime daycare is really affecting the boys. Night time is for when she works nights and days are for when she needs to sleep. I know for a fact that she has been bringing the boys here everyday and she has been bringing the boys there every night... she does not work 24 hours a day. She had her girlfriend over this wickend and was off from Thursday night to Monday night, the boys were still going to night care... That totally shows the boys that her girlfriend is more important to her than them. They have talked about it and I am furious!! I will be talking with her today about all of this. Besides the fact that DHS will not tolerate it, neither will I. She has no sense of priorities... I just know this is not going to be good. Poor babes

JoeCanada76 · Aug 21, 2007, 12:44 PM

Originally Posted by startover22

Just the fact that she has night time and daytime daycare is really affecting the boys. Night time is for when she works nights and days are for when she needs to sleep. I know for a fact that she has been bringing the boys here everyday and she has been bringing the boys there every night.....she does not work 24 hours a day. She had her girlfriend over this wickend and was off from Thursday night to Monday night, the boys were still going to night care.....That totally shows the boys that her girlfriend is more important to her than them. They have talked about it and I am furious!!! I will be talking with her today about all of this. Besides the fact that DHS will not tolerate it, neither will I. She has no sense of priorities......I just know this is not gonna be good. Poor babes

Sorry to hear about things that are going on. I know that everything will work out the best for the boys. Do not blame you for being mad and like you said DHS will not tolerate it.

Hello to everybody else. I know I have not been here lately. Just busy with the family and work. Hope you are all doing fine and I will write more in a bit.

Joe

Proudmama · Aug 21, 2007, 09:19 PM

Originally Posted by startover22

Just the fact that she has night time and daytime daycare is really affecting the boys. Night time is for when she works nights and days are for when she needs to sleep. I know for a fact that she has been bringing the boys here everyday and she has been bringing the boys there every night.....she does not work 24 hours a day. She had her girlfriend over this wickend and was off from Thursday night to Monday night, the boys were still going to night care.....That totally shows the boys that her girlfriend is more important to her than them. They have talked about it and I am furious!!! I will be talking with her today about all of this. Besides the fact that DHS will not tolerate it, neither will I. She has no sense of priorities......I just know this is not gonna be good. Poor babes

Hello everyone!

Start sorry to hear about that person. When I read that I feel Like telling that person off myself.

gaia213 · Aug 21, 2007, 10:30 PM

I see you have my apologies for hearing about that tragedy

Yet I too understand what it is I have lost all people dear to me
I hope you shall not cry

Not crying is not to be ruthless and not care

No one ever said you shall never have a wife nor children Cal

Be glad in life find your happiness regardless if you let your children out to the world or not

I have gotten to a new school with a wonder due to my bad grades from the first semester it was a unbalanced situation

gaia213 · Aug 21, 2007, 10:30 PM

Including the class jump

I have to do my own school shopping whitch I can indeed say I hate.

gaia213 · Aug 21, 2007, 10:31 PM

I must say good luck everyone

NO MORE HUGS!! (Do you people want to squish my lungs)??

cal823 · Aug 22, 2007, 02:00 AM

Now your asking for it!
(hugs gaia)
You can never have too many hugs :P
By the way nowwhat, I do say never, seeing as how
1# I would never want to bring a kid into the world if I wasn't married
2# I would never want to tie another person to a horrible person like me by marrying them, they could do so much better.
Hugs to everyone, you are a wonderful bunch :)

startover22 · Aug 22, 2007, 07:14 AM

Originally Posted by gaia213

Including the class jump

I have to do my own school shopping whitch i can indeed say i hate.

I want to see some color and definitely some cool shoes... Come on sweet, mix it up a bit... You want me to go with you? I am the bargain shopper of the world! And I have good taste. At least that is what I think.
Thanks guys, I think we got some stuff worked out through DHS and another week she will be on days, so it would have all changed again for the boys... crazy! She isn't a bad person, and we talked a bit yesterday, I know she has good excuses for the things she does, but I would like to see her take more responsibility for the things she does. Any way, who am I? Her mother? LOL
Cal, I would marry you if I could. You are too kind and sweet...
My husband has taught me some very important things about babies and parents... They have us for a reason, we are not to let them get away... It really does surprise me when people just have babies and decide a year or whatever down the road that they are not happy. Upsets me, I feel unhappy sometimes, I just keep moving on. I am sure you saw in my posts around here that I have my own problems, but those dang problems, well, they make a person and relationship stronger. OMGosh, am I talking out of my A-hole... I will stop. I hope you get the point. (No relationship is ALWAYS good)
Gaia, one (hug) more sweet... mmmmmm that was a good one. I think you made me fart!

shatteredsoul · Aug 22, 2007, 07:19 AM

YOu are so crazy and so sweet Start. I too feel like marrying Cal!! What a doll. He really is a good person. It makes me sad to think he doesn't see himself that way.
Cal, you are a truly unique and beautiful person, you have so much to offer. PLease look in the mirror and find a way to see something good within yourself. You are the only one who can change that image and open your heart to love. Everyone is worth loving. Yes it is a scary world and I wasn't worthy, or didn't feel worthy of having my own kids, until I had them. They renewed my faith in things that are good and in God and in myself. The most important thing is to learn to love yourself, otherwise you really can't be close to anyone, including God. I have faith in you and I believe you will find love and have a family. ONe day.
GAia, you are showing your silly side and I like it, OK HUGS FROM ME TOO so feel extra squished today.

JOe and Proud, hope all is well. Missing you lots.

Start, I hope everything works out for the boys I really do. I am glad you are in such a good mood today, I would like a hug, minus the farts please LOL LOL

I love you all!!

startover22 · Aug 22, 2007, 07:21 AM

Hug... oops

shatteredsoul · Aug 22, 2007, 07:31 AM

Ok have a great day!!

startover22 · Aug 22, 2007, 07:35 AM

No don't go, I had to get a thingy started for Maxy... I have to tell you, there are no extra kids coming, my hubby is at work, Grady promised he would help with a few errands, and I am going to try to get a pair of pants and a few shirts... If I go out, they recognize me cause I wear the same thing... My kids on the other hand, well they are might cool.
Anyway, how are you SHATTERED? You doing OK, working, sending kids to school, getting laundry done? LOL, I am tired, and will be giving myself another hour to relax then get up. Love you. Start

shatteredsoul · Aug 22, 2007, 08:02 AM

I am doing fine, kids are good, work is work and laundry is well, there. I am trying to do more but there is just not enough time in the day sometimes!! I will do a few loads as soon as I get home, a lot of sheets and blankets to wash. I am sure you will be busy the next few days getting everyone ready for school. I am sure Grady will be a big help. I thnk maybe you deserve a few new things to wear, you bust your a$$ everyday!! I am glad you are relaxing, I don't think I have ever heard you use that word but that is definitely a good thing!! Now, I need to refill my coffee cup!
I am here, if you want to keep chatting, otay?

startover22 · Aug 22, 2007, 08:14 AM

Oh, you came back, I thought I hurt your feelings so I called you... I love you Shattered, you have been a good friend... my humor come out and I can't stop!
I can't imagine working and taking care of my home, I am proud of you. I think about the day I go back to work, and OMGosh, it just isn't going to be like it is now, I will never want a clean house again!

shatteredsoul · Aug 22, 2007, 08:21 AM

YOu will do fine like you always do. You find a way and you manage. I think it is harder to stay home in some ways. I feel like I am more productive at work and yet I don't budget my time wisely when I am home. To be honest, sometimes I am just lazy. YOU could never be lazy. Don't worry you didn't hurt my feelings, I just figured you couldn't talk. YOu have never been intentionally hurtful, it isn't in your nature. If my feelings get hurt than that is my problem, not yours. I always see the good in you and I am proud of who you are. You have opened my eyes to a few things and shown me how to be different. Thanks for that.