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    andrea789456 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Aug 16, 2007, 01:10 PM
    Cant orgasm
    OK so my guy and I just started having sex
    Now we have it on a regular basis but I can't seem to orgasm
    We have pretty much stopped oral sex and only do that sometimes
    Could that have something to do with it?
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    Aug 16, 2007, 01:20 PM
    Lots of women don't have an orgasm through vaginal intercourse. Most women have an orgasm through clitoral stimulation. If you have your partner stimulate your clitoris before sex (through masturbation, oral, whatever you like to do) it will make it more sensitive so when you have sex you can feel your partner hitting it. :)
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    Aug 16, 2007, 02:01 PM
    I would suggest giving some kind of toy that has stimulation to it, It's not uncommon for women to not have orgasims through intercourse or even through oral.
    Like nautical said use stimulation on the clitoris, which is where a toy with stimulation comes in.
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    Aug 16, 2007, 03:55 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by andrea789456
    ok so my guy and i just started having sex
    now we have it on a regular basis but i can't seem to orgasim
    we have pretty much stoped oral sex and only do that sometimes
    could that have somthing to do with it?
    Hey hun, sorry your having problems. Just so you know I'm a guy, this may be a shock when I say this but when I make love I make love its not just sex its not about me its about my partner its more importnt that they than me, I never used to be like that but I realised that with love its more important to please the other person. That is my desire. Having said that I still have the ability to . It can't be easy not. I would recommend you masterbate rub your in circular motion think about whatever it is that turns you on. Try watching your boyfriend penis you can only experiment to see what really gets you horny. It may be you need to stimulate yourself to almost orgasm then he can insert his penis while you continue and you both clearly you need to consider positions if this is the case. Hope you get it sorted.
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    Aug 16, 2007, 05:23 PM
    Hello.

    Bring back the oral... Many Ladies can't climax during intercourse but they can with oral if they relax and its done right. Making Love should be to make each other happy not so he can get off. Foreplay is the most important part of Making Love. If he doesn't mental excite you, your not going to enjoy it as much. If you both care for each other learn to talk when your Making Love so you can communicate what makes you feel good and what doesn't.

    Dennis777
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    Aug 17, 2007, 05:18 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by andrea789456
    ok so my guy and i just started having sex
    now we have it on a regular basis but i can't seem to orgasim
    we have pretty much stoped oral sex and only do that sometimes
    could that have somthing to do with it?
    I am in the same way I finish and then manually bring her to completion... it works for us
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