[milito4u]

When, is it really over?

[fallnites]

Believe me you will know when it is over.First of all you will not have to ask that question.
It gets to a point that there are no good memories left because there are so many bad ones.You are happier,more content and relaxed when you are by yourself. You can totally lose respect for someone due to the rude hurtful way they treat you.I could go on and on,All marriages have there up and down times.It is not going to be like it was in the beginning.Passion will sizzle,there is stress and responsibility so please do not think it is over because you don't have sex as often,maybe he does't give you the attention he use to.It takes work to have a happy marriage. You didn't give much detail.I am teaching my daughters to be emotionally and financially independent and if they fall in love that is icing on the cake.Don't let someone else whether it be your husband or boyfriend decide how you feal about yourself. Good luck

[miss_icanhelp]

When, is it really over?

It is never over until you say it's over. Remember that day when you got married. How you both felt? What happens to us depends on the choices we make. What did you vow before God and men on that day? You both said, "til death do us part" and yet now you are about to give up. For many, divorce is always the answer. But for me it's not. Do you know that Jesus hmself discourages divorce? If you get divorced you are not allowed to remarry. The only time we are allowed to divorce and remarry is when our partner committed sexual immorality. Sometimes, we may think that what's happening is unbearable and unforgivable. But above all these things, we should always go back to our wedding day when we said, for better or for worst, for richer for poorer, in sickness and in health, 'til death do us part. It means that no one or nothing can ever separate you but death alone. I am suggesting that you buy this book The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman. I am positive that if you are open to improvement and you are willing to give your love a second chance then this book will help you a lot. God bless. And I hope you'll be able to work things out.