[DougE]

My Account? LOL She has my SS#

[SnakeBite]

Hey everyone,
I have this situation. I just broke up with my girfriend of almost 3 years (this september) and she thinks that I am playing mind games that everytime I am around her

I got half way through your post and stopped reading it.:confused:

Advice: If you break up with someone, you can't stay friends. It never or rarely ever works. Too many past feelings and emotions that will always get in the way.:eek:

If you run into them at the grocery store or other public place, say hello. That is it!:rolleyes:

[GlindaofOz]

My Account?? LOL She has my SS#

That is a HUGE mistake. I would put an alert on file with th credit bureau in case she decides to get some credit using your info.

[DougE]

Well everyone... I'm happy to say She changed her number last night. So I believe this is it

[J_9]

That is a HUGE mistake. I would put an alert on file with th credit bureau in case she decides to get some credit using your info.

I have to totally agree with this advice. Sure nothing may ever come of this, but better safe than sorry. You already lost $170,000 to this woman, why risk losing everything.

[donaven2jami]

Okay, how to put this in a nice way. I am a female. I do not understand why you are investing that type of money in any relationship where you aren't married. No nothing to show for it. She is still in your life not because she wants to be but because of what you can do for her. Listen, from a females point of view, please move on. Get yourself together. The sooner you do the sooner you will meet someone who really wants what you want in life and will do everything 50/50. When you have someone that is willing to meet you half-way that's when you know that you have someone that is really serious about you and the relationship. Let her go and let her fight her own battles and pay her own bills. You should have invested that money.

[GlindaofOz]

That is a HUGE mistake. I would put an alert on file with th credit bureau in case she decides to get some credit using your info.

Doug will you promise to do this?? I do not want you back on here in two months from now asking how you an get her for identity theft. Please TODAY write up a letter and send it to all three credit bureaus that someone has a social security number and ask for an alert to be placed on you so that way if anyone applies credit you will be alerted immediately.

[DougE]

Ok I don't think any of you heard me. She sent a fax this morning to me stating that she can't do this anymore she needs happiness in her life (as I was a jerk all this past week) and that she changed her number. So I called the old cell and yes she changed her number, so I believe this is truly it. She is gone. Now I have no way of contacting her. So she did my favor for me I guess. I will admit I was being a jerk.

[GlindaofOz]

But considering how she is a money hungry lady you should protect yourself. She may be done with you BUT she has access to all of your information. I would move my bank account and write a letter to the credit bureau. If you do not do this you are setting yourself up to get taken once again.

She may be done with you but maybe not your money.

[nicespringgirl]

I am just curious Doug, what does she do? Does she work?

[DougE]

Do u think it means the person is done when they change their number?

[DougE]

Yes nicespring she works I have her work number but out of respect I'm not going to call. She said she was too weak not to send me text messages and calling me, so her changing her number was the best thing to do

[nicespringgirl]

Well, it's not free to change your cell no. right? She is willing to spend her money on changing her no. ( I was surprised), that must be something really serious FOR HER! :D

[DougE]

Well now I KNOW we won't get back to talking, anytime someone changes their number

[nicespringgirl]

Okay, seriously, I know a friend of mine changed her no. b'c she was trying to forget about her ex boyfriend, she knew he'd call her... yes, it's over.
It is the only case I know of, hope it gives you some information.

[DougE]

K good. Well now I don't have to worry about that. She called from her job phone this morning before sending the Fax

[DougE]

I just don't know if this is certain. We always have a cycle of getting back together

[GlindaofOz]

I just dont know if this is certain., We always have a cycle of getting back together

Dude, seriously??

Is wrong with you? You are BEYOND help on this board. You need to get into some very serious psychotherapy. You clearly have ZERO self esteem or self respect. This girl is toxic and only comes back around when she wants money. Are you really this stupid?

[DougE]

All I'm sayiong is she changed her number, so this shouls be relief right?

[talaniman]

Still be cautious as to your accounts, and be wary of ID theft. Nothing like a woman scorned, so cover you butt, as its to easy for her to catch you up, and you can't even call and ask her. Don't be dumb, and think she isn't pissed that she can't get what she wants, and will walk away quietly.