[babymama1]

My question is I found I was pregnant about 4wks ago after I missed my period 1wk before well everything was going okay I was cramping but no bleeding well Friday I was at work and I was cramping but didn't think anything about well I went to the restroom and noticed I was bleeding but it had stopped I thought mayb it was me just spoting well next morning it happened again so I went to the ER and they atted I mayb having a misscarriage they couldn't see the baby because it was too early but my blood was reading I was still pregnant but everything I read about misscarriages doesn't quite fit I don't Have a fever but when I'm bleeding I have cloth and cramps but not passing any tissue though and the cramps are kind of intense does anyone know what's going on??

[nauticalstar420]

Mild spotting is normal in early pregnancy, however severe cramping and clotting are not. When you went to the ER, you said they said it was too early to see the baby. Did they do a vaginal ultrasound?

I suggest paying another trip to the ER. They will take you more seriously if you make their lives hell (I know that sounds bad, but its true). Another option is to call your OB and let him/her know what is going on. An OB has a better tendency of knowing what is going on than an ER doctor.

Good luck and I hope everything goes okay. If you have to, go to a different ER and get a second opinion.

[babymama1]

Well I lost the baby they announced it to me I have to go back in a week to see if its over

[nauticalstar420]

Awww hun I am so sorry. I have never been through that before so I can't say I know what you are going through. Just remember after all this is over you can always try again. :(

[rankrank55]

:( I'm sorry babe, I know how you are feeling right now. It will get better though!

[LearningAsIGo]

I'm so sorry hun, I know how tough it can be. :( {{HUGS}}

[alkalineangel]

IM so sorry for your loss, there is a great support system here, if you ever need to vent.

[buggage]

Very sorry for your loss hun.