[d-boy]

I lost this girl I thought was the one for me she meant everything to me and she even still have my promise ring and we broke up because I cheated and I never meant to hurt her and sometimes we talk on the phone and all we talk about is how good it was and how we miss each other. I don't know if she just does that to feel good when she's down or what but I do miss her and love her but we both have a baby and she in a abusive relationship. What should I do.

[Haplo]

That sounds complicated. Can you give us more information?

[kateruckert]

Hey, well first thing you should proably do is get her trust back. She's probably scared she might get hurt again. And be her friend for awhile and build back a trustworthy relationship. I know that the best thing a guy can do for a girl is listen to them, it rele helps if she has a friend that she can open up to. And if you build a good relationship as a friend, you'll know if she loves you again. It just takes time to get the trust back that you lost. Good luck!

[Canada_Sweety]

Tell her how you feel... let ehr knwo the truth. And if she is in an abusive relationship, tell her to get out.

[victoria_mitchell]

Since no one else has said it I will:::

Once a cheater always a cheater.
When you do something like that you can't ever take it back.
She may never forgive you, but then again neither would I

[Phily6996]

i lost this girl i thought was the one for me she meant everything to me and she even still have my promise ring and we broke up because i cheated and i never meant to hurt her and sometimes we talk on the phone and all we talk about is how good it was and how we miss each other. i dont know if she just does that to feel good when shes down or what but i do miss her and love her but we both have a baby and she in a abusive relationship. what should i do.

Well all I can say is if she don't want you then she don't want you sweety. Realize it and know it. Well I never was a cheater but I did kiss my ex not intentionally It wasn't planned or nothing he was just all over me tempting me and I fell for it knowing that I was falling for the other guy. But before I kissed him back I knew that I had no more feelings for my ex I guess it took a stupid kiss to realize that. But if it was at total stranger then I would deffently not take you back never ever. Now if you never cheated on someone before then she she should have looked at other options. Now I am lucky as hell to have gotten another chance thank god. Cause god knew I was so very very sorry and god knows the type of person his child is so he knew I would never do it again.

[mikezapwnzor]

I would keep talking to here, and once she gets out of the relationship try to gets things going again...