I lost this girl I thought was the one for me she meant everything to me and she even still have my promise ring and we broke up because I cheated and I never meant to hurt her and sometimes we talk on the phone and all we talk about is how good it was and how we miss each other. I don't know if she just does that to feel good when she's down or what but I do miss her and love her but we both have a baby and she in a abusive relationship. What should I do.

That sounds complicated. Can you give us more information?

Hey, well first thing you should proably do is get her trust back. She's probably scared she might get hurt again. And be her friend for awhile and build back a trustworthy relationship. I know that the best thing a guy can do for a girl is listen to them, it rele helps if she has a friend that she can open up to. And if you build a good relationship as a friend, you'll know if she loves you again. It just takes time to get the trust back that you lost. Good luck!

Tell her how you feel... let ehr knwo the truth. And if she is in an abusive relationship, tell her to get out.

Since no one else has said it I will:::

Once a cheater always a cheater.
When you do something like that you can't ever take it back.
She may never forgive you, but then again neither would I

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Originally Posted by d-boy

i lost this girl i thought was the one for me she meant everything to me and she even still have my promise ring and we broke up because i cheated and i never meant to hurt her and sometimes we talk on the phone and all we talk about is how good it was and how we miss each other. i dont know if she just does that to feel good when shes down or what but i do miss her and love her but we both have a baby and she in a abusive relationship. what should i do.

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Well all I can say is if she don't want you then she don't want you sweety. Realize it and know it. Well I never was a cheater but I did kiss my ex not intentionally It wasn't planned or nothing he was just all over me tempting me and I fell for it knowing that I was falling for the other guy. But before I kissed him back I knew that I had no more feelings for my ex I guess it took a stupid kiss to realize that. But if it was at total stranger then I would deffently not take you back never ever. Now if you never cheated on someone before then she she should have looked at other options. Now I am lucky as hell to have gotten another chance thank god. Cause god knew I was so very very sorry and god knows the type of person his child is so he knew I would never do it again.

I would keep talking to here, and once she gets out of the relationship try to gets things going again...