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    #581

    Jul 23, 2007, 05:56 PM
    Oh sweet what is happening.. You are going to come through, I just know it. Remember, moving is one of the most stressful things to do, trying to get through your regular stuff and adding moving to it is so hard.
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    #582

    Jul 23, 2007, 06:04 PM
    Yeα it's not the moving so much it's the "digging-up-old-bones" sort of thing.. ugh the pαst is supposed to be in the pαst not meant to "bring-up" in αrguements.. yαy I feel greαt:D
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    #583

    Jul 23, 2007, 06:06 PM
    Ah ha, I get it. Well, when I married my husband we made vows that anything and everything before that day stays there. No bringing it up, we both were to change right then and there and love each other till we die...
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    #584

    Jul 23, 2007, 06:13 PM
    Wow-- jeαlous...
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    #585

    Jul 23, 2007, 06:21 PM
    HEy everybody. How is everyone doing?
    Today was another busy day! I had another interview - different co. and I have one tomorrow too.
    After thinking about my Friday interview - I don't think I want that job. There is part of the job that would put my safety at risk. (I would have to go to people's houses and collect money that has not been paid on an account) I just don't think it is worth it for $9 an hour!
    The interview I had today is for the PERFECT job - and I get to go to the next level or round 2 of interviews so that is good, right?
    Lets keep our fingers crossed!
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    #586

    Jul 23, 2007, 08:14 PM
    I will keep my fingers crossed for you Nowwhat!
    I have to let you know that the case worker did not go to the "moms" house to inspect today because of a dentist appointment. I am so angry, I could cry right this minute. Not to mention, the boys had their hopes up and so did my whole family. OOOHHHH I am so angry.
    Sara, we still have our little things but the past before our marriage has to stay there...
    I hope you guys are OK by morning. Sorry it is a hard day... Special hugs coming your way.
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    #587

    Jul 23, 2007, 08:21 PM
    Ugh thαnks need it
    NW good luck to yα<3
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    #588

    Jul 23, 2007, 09:59 PM
    Cool...
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    #589

    Jul 24, 2007, 01:08 AM
    Nowwhat - have my fingers crossed.

    Cal - cool.

    Sara - hope your doing all right. Past is the past, it is hard for some to keep it there, hope all works out for you.

    Gaia
    - Even if you do not realise it or do not notice it there is love around you. Might be hard for you to see right now but believe me it is there.

    Start - Hugs for you, I know everything will work out the way it needs to. Hugs for the whole family.

    Shattered - I hope your doing better. Did you go to the adult playground to have a tantrum? Lol My mama always told me to grab on to a pillow and punch it whenever I did have to have a tantrum. Hope it helps. (;

    Well I thinking of everyone having a better day today. Hugs to you all.
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    #590

    Jul 24, 2007, 04:45 AM
    Guess what.
    You decide how good your day is.
    God wants your day to be incredibly awesome
    He wants your life to be even better
    And so do I.
    The same events will happen in a day, but you can take those events and choose whether to say "nooooo it sucks so much i want to kill myself its hopeless"
    Or
    "well, a few things went wrong, ill have to work on those. a few obstacles are in my path, ill have to work hard to overcome them. some good things happened today. i am so grateful for them, im so grateful for my wonderful friends, for the fact that the sun is shining and the beauty of the rain, and i am going to do my best to make the world a better place for all,and i am never going to give up, never going to surrender, because as long as i stand up for myself, and keep trying, i cannot fail."

    Lol... yes... so, hugs to you all!
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    #591

    Jul 24, 2007, 08:23 AM
    Ok Cal, your enthusiasm is admirable, I am just feeling crappy, grumpy and otherwise aggravated as all hell. Otherwise, its just another day in paradise. LOL Seriously, I feel like I have been picking all the wrong chocolates lately, if you know what I mean? OR sometimes there just aren't enough rocks!! (FOrrest Gump also) yeah, I am getting the ones with the sucky centers, ha ha. That is life. I am going to cheer myself up because you people do that to me! I am missing you START!! Oh well Sara, I feel for you girl! The reason everything is coming up is because you are dealing with a stressful situation. Sometimes that brings out the good the bad and the ugly!! It will pass. Moving is so hard on everyone, its easy to get frustrated and argue about stupid crap. Just try not to feed into it. Try deflating the conflict by not responding at all to it. I don't mean ignore him, just his comments that are hurtful and make you feel like arguing. It is hard to do, but if you aren't arguing back, he can only go on for soooo long. Right? Good luck with that. Yes, today the sun is shining, yesterday it looked like a hurricane and tornado outside with all the rain. I am grateful that is over. YES without my friends I would be institutionalized because I would have already completely lost my mind!!
    I will not give up on anyone I love, including myself, even though sometimes I really feel like throwing in the towel!! The hard times make the good times that much more sweet. I guess. NO, I Know!
    Thank you for putting my mood in the right perspective, I can choose to miserable or I can choose to get over it and be thankful for all the people in my life that I love...

    I love my friends!! Thanks guys for sticking around!
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    #592

    Jul 24, 2007, 08:42 AM
    AWWWW Jesushelper is back, where in the heck have you been. You have been reading but no writing? Dang you know we could all use a little Joe in the morning! Hope you are well.
    Cal, you have to be a wonderful kick in the pants. Hugs to you sweet.
    Shattered... honey, it will all come and pass, just like you told Sara. It is all crap but let see if we can flush it down the toilet, OK? Relax, get your coffee and have a good day at work. Hugs to you.
    Sara, how's the babe?
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    #593

    Jul 24, 2007, 08:46 AM
    I am drinking my coffee now! It certainly does help! WHERE Is that Joe when you need him?? Ok I know, take my own advice. Got it. It is so much easier to give advice than to take it. HMMM, I think I need to work on that. I really want to see that movie I Now pronounce you Chuck & Larry,I could use a good laugh this weekend. The last funny movie I saw was Knocked up, I literally almost peed my pants laughing hysterically the whole time.

    Sara, how is that beautiful baby? Any new pics?
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    #594

    Jul 24, 2007, 08:56 AM
    I rented THUNDERPANTS for the kids, we are going to all cuddle up and watch it! When they feel like getting comfy that it. We have a fort going, some coloring and some pouts... I can take care of that though. Little bugars. Can't wait till we are back to normal. I feel a little weird now. I called the social worker and told her I didn't like being strung along, and since this was the second time, I couldn't accept any excuses. I was real hard and strong but I think it sounded OK. Never really got angry with a person over the phone before.
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    #595

    Jul 24, 2007, 09:00 AM
    Damn girl don't let my bad side rub off on you! I love you and I am tainting your friendly manner! LOL LOL ITs OK, she deserved to hear that. Are you kidding? Why should she make any excuses. Sometimes nobody listens until you are angry. Why is that? Sounds like a fun movie. Oh when my kids pout, I hang them upside down in the closet. Cheers them right up! LOL Just a Joke People!
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    #596

    Jul 24, 2007, 09:44 AM
    Ok, OK, OK, I will calm down. I have a headache and would just love to go to bed...
    I will be getting something yummy for the kids. I am going to start a movie for them. They think it is a special treat. How sweet is that.. Hugs, Start
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    Jul 24, 2007, 10:18 AM
    Well bαby is greαt-- things αre pαtchin up with the hubby.. jeeze I hαte these moments: here's α link of shαylα rolling over for the very first time:):Ringo - shayla roles
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    #598

    Jul 24, 2007, 10:28 AM
    She is so cute. Thanks for sharing. Pretty soon she will be crawling and then walking with you holding your hand. My favorite thing was when they each held my hand, there is something about walking with a 2 and a half foot human side by side with them holding onto your pinky... My favorite..
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    #599

    Jul 24, 2007, 10:31 AM
    Hello everybody, I have not been on the internet that much. I do check in occasionally. Been busy and resting lots. Have not had much energy lately. Just got back from work.
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    #600

    Jul 24, 2007, 10:33 AM
    What is the difference between the in - laws and the out - laws?

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